When parents die, all of the partings of the past are reevoked with the realization that this time they will not return.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONThe Christian tradition was passed on to me as a great rich mixture, a bouillabaisse of human imagination and wonder brewed from the richness of individual lives.
More Mary Catherine Bateson Quotes
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What would it be like to have not only color vision but culture vision, the ability to see the multiple worlds of others.
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Caring can be learned by all human beings, can be worked into the design of every life, meeting an individual need as well as a pervasive need in society.
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Human beings do not eat nutrients, they eat food.
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Goals too clearly defined can become blinkers.
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Improvisation and new learning are not private processes; they are shared with others at every age. We are called to join in a dance whose steps must be learned along the way, so it is important to attend and respond. Even in uncertainty, we are responsible for our steps.
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Sharing is sometimes more demanding than giving.
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Every loss recapitulates earlier losses, but every affirmation of identity echoes earlier moments of clarity.
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The human species thinks in metaphors and learns through stories.
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The past empowers the present, and the sweeping footsteps leading to this present mark the pathways to the future.
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The family is changing not disappearing. We have to broaden our understanding of it, look for the new metaphors.
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Most higher education is devoted to affirming the traditions and origins of an existing elite and transmitting them to new members.
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Worlds can be found by a child and an adult bending down and looking together under the grass stems or at the skittering crabs in a tidal pool.
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There are few things as toxic as a bad metaphor. You can’t think without metaphors.
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Improvisation can be either a last resort or an established way of evoking creativity.
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As we age we have not only to readdress earlier developmental crises but also somehow to find the way to three affirmations that may seem to conflict. … We have to affirm our own life. We have to affirm our own death. And we have to affirm love, both given and received.
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