A disgruntled reflection on my own life as a sort of desperate improvisation in which I was constantly trying to make something coherent from conflicting elements to fit rapidly changing settings.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONThe critical question about regret is whether experience led to growth and new learning. Some people seem to keep on making the same mistakes, while others at least make new ones. Regret and remorse can be either paralyzing or inspiring.
More Mary Catherine Bateson Quotes
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Fluidity and discontinuity are central to the reality in which we live.
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Goals too clearly defined can become blinkers.
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The human species thinks in metaphors and learns through stories.
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What would it be like to have not only color vision but culture vision, the ability to see the multiple worlds of others.
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Worlds can be found by a child and an adult bending down and looking together under the grass stems or at the skittering crabs in a tidal pool.
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A suprising number of physicians manage to continue to care about persons even after the rigors of medical training.
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The capacity to combine commitment with skepticism is essential to democracy.
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Improvisation can be either a last resort or an established way of evoking creativity.
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As you get up in the morning, as you make decisions, as you spend money, make friends, make commitments, you are creating a piece of art called your life.
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In many ways, constancy is an illusion.
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The critical question about regret is whether experience led to growth and new learning. Some people seem to keep on making the same mistakes, while others at least make new ones. Regret and remorse can be either paralyzing or inspiring.
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There are few things as toxic as a bad metaphor. You can’t think without metaphors.
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Every loss recapitulates earlier losses, but every affirmation of identity echoes earlier moments of clarity.
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When parents die, all of the partings of the past are reevoked with the realization that this time they will not return.
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The timing of death, like the ending of a story, gives a changed meaning to what preceded it.
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