Improvisation and new learning are not private processes; they are shared with others at every age. We are called to join in a dance whose steps must be learned along the way, so it is important to attend and respond. Even in uncertainty, we are responsible for our steps.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONThe critical question about regret is whether experience led to growth and new learning. Some people seem to keep on making the same mistakes, while others at least make new ones. Regret and remorse can be either paralyzing or inspiring.
More Mary Catherine Bateson Quotes
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As you get up in the morning, as you make decisions, as you spend money, make friends, make commitments, you are creating a piece of art called your life.
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Human beings do not eat nutrients, they eat food.
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Caring can be learned by all human beings, can be worked into the design of every life, meeting an individual need as well as a pervasive need in society.
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The family is changing not disappearing. We have to broaden our understanding of it, look for the new metaphors.
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A suprising number of physicians manage to continue to care about persons even after the rigors of medical training.
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There are few things as toxic as a bad metaphor. You can’t think without metaphors.
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Fluidity and discontinuity are central to the reality in which we live.
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We are not what we know but what we are willing to learn.
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Often continuity is visible only in retrospect.
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When parents die, all of the partings of the past are reevoked with the realization that this time they will not return.
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Sharing is sometimes more demanding than giving.
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Of any stopping place in life, it is good to ask whether it will be a good place from which to go on as well as a good place to remain.
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Improvisation can be either a last resort or an established way of evoking creativity.
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Fear is not a good teacher. The lessons of fear are quickly forgotten.
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Learning to savor the vertigo of doing without answers or making do with fragmentary ones opens up the pleasures of recognizing and playing with patterns, finding coherence within complexity, sharing within multiplicity.
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