Every loss recapitulates earlier losses, but every affirmation of identity echoes earlier moments of clarity.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONEvery loss recapitulates earlier losses, but every affirmation of identity echoes earlier moments of clarity.
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Caring can be learned by all human beings, can be worked into the design of every life, meeting an individual need as well as a pervasive need in society.
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In many ways, constancy is an illusion.
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As we age we have not only to readdress earlier developmental crises but also somehow to find the way to three affirmations that may seem to conflict. … We have to affirm our own life. We have to affirm our own death. And we have to affirm love, both given and received.
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The past empowers the present, and the sweeping footsteps leading to this present mark the pathways to the future.
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When parents die, all of the partings of the past are reevoked with the realization that this time they will not return.
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Human beings tend to regard the conventions of their own societies as natural, often as sacred.
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Learning to savor the vertigo of doing without answers or making do with fragmentary ones opens up the pleasures of recognizing and playing with patterns, finding coherence within complexity, sharing within multiplicity.
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A disgruntled reflection on my own life as a sort of desperate improvisation in which I was constantly trying to make something coherent from conflicting elements to fit rapidly changing settings.
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The family is changing not disappearing. We have to broaden our understanding of it, look for the new metaphors.
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We are not what we know but what we are willing to learn.
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The capacity to combine commitment with skepticism is essential to democracy.
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Sharing is sometimes more demanding than giving.
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Worlds can be found by a child and an adult bending down and looking together under the grass stems or at the skittering crabs in a tidal pool.
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Often continuity is visible only in retrospect.
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Fluidity and discontinuity are central to the reality in which we live.
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