The Samoan puts the burden of amatory success upon the man and believes that women need more initiating, more time for maturing of sexual feeling. A man who fails to satisfy a woman is looked upon as a clumsy, inept blunderer.
MARGARET MEADI had my father’s mind, but he had his mother’s mind. Fortunately, his mother lived with us and so I early realized that intellectual abilities of the kind I shared with my father and grandmother were not sex-linked.
More Margaret Mead Quotes
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I have a respect for manners as such, they are a way of dealing with people you don’t agree with or like.
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The ability to learn is older as it is also more widespread than is the ability to teach.
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Human nature is almost unbelievably malleable, responding accurately and contrastingly to contrasting cultural conditions.
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The most intractable problem today is not pollution or technology or war; but the lack of belief that the future is very much in the hands of the individual.
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What is new is not bisexuality, but rather the widening of our awareness and acceptance of human capacities for sexual love.
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If the future is to remain open and free, we need people who can tolerate the unknown, who will not need the support of completely worked out systems or traditional blueprints from the past.
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It is easier to change a man’s religion than to change his diet.
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If one cannot state a matter clearly enough so that even an intelligent twelve-year-old can understand it, one should remain within the cloistered walls of the university and laboratory until one gets a better grasp of one’s subject matter.
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In almost any society I think, the quality of the nonconformists is likely to be just as good as and no better than that of the conformists.
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The negative cautions of science are never popular.
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I was brought up to believe that the only thing worth doing was to add to the sum of accurate information in the world.
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Parents feel like immigrants in the country of the young.
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With the exception of the few cases to be discussed in the next chapter, adolescence represented no period of crisis or stress, but was instead an orderly developing of a set of slowly maturing interests and activities.
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Life in the twentieth century is like a parachute jump: you have to get it right the first time.
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Never believe that a few caring people can’t change the world. For, indeed, that’s all who ever have.
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The anonymity of the city is one of its strengths as well as – carried too far – one of its weaknesses.
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Manners, really good ones, make it possible to live with almost anyone, gracefully and pleasantly.
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Our humanity rests upon a series of learned behaviors, woven together into patterns that are infinitely fragile and never directly inherited.
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No society that feeds its children on tales of successful violence can expect them not to believe that violence in the end is rewarded.
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Everyone needs to have access both to grandparents and grandchildren in order to be a full human being.
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A city is a place where there is no need to wait for next week to get the answer to a question, to taste the food of any country, to find new voices to listen to and familiar ones to listen to again.
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As the traveler who has once been from home is wiser than he who has never left his own doorstep, so a knowledge of one other culture should sharpen our ability to scrutinize more steadily, to appreciate more lovingly, our own.
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in all cultures, human beings – in order to be human – must understand the nonhuman.
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Be who you really are, do what you want to do, in order to have what you really want.
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In Bali life is a rhythmic, patterned unreality of pleasant, significant movement, centered in one’s own body to which all emotions long ago withdrew.
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For the human species to evolve, the conversation must deepen.
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