Why are you leaving me? He wrote, I do not know how to live. I do not know either but I am trying. I do not know how to try. There were some things I wanted to tell him. But I knew they would hurt him. So i buried them and let them hurt me
JONATHAN SAFRAN FOERThere are only some many times you can utter “It does not hurt” before it begins to hurt even more than the hurt.
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I got incredibly heavy boots about how relatively insignificant life is, and how, compared to the universe and compared to time, it didn’t even matter if I existed at all.
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So many people enter and leave your life! Hundreds of thousands of people! You have to keep the door open so they can come in! But it also means you have to let them go!
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But come. No explaining or mending. Be beside me somewhere.
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The bruises go away, and so does how you hate, and so does the feeling that everything you receive from life is something you have earned.
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She was with me. She did all of those things and so many more, things I would never tell anyone, and she never even loved me. Now that’s love.
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I do think ordinariness is, in a way, the enemy, but not ordinariness as the opposite of flamboyance.
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Once you hear something, you can never return to the time before you heard it.
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I love sushi, I love fried chicken, I love steak. But there is a limit to my love.
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It can be challenge enough to have to eat with myself.
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Sometimes I can hear my bones straining under the weight of all the lives I’m not living.
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You cannot protect yourself from sadness without protecting yourself from happiness.
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Sometimes you have to put your fears in order.
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Only humans can cry tears.
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Whether we change our lives or do nothing, we have responded. To do nothing is to do something.
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Feathers filled the small room. Our laughter kept the feathers in the air. I thought about birds. Could they fly is there wasn’t someone, somewhere, laughing?
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I try not to remember the life that I didn’t want to lose but lost and have to remember,
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She let out a laugh, and then she put her hand over her mouth, like she was angry at herself for forgetting her sadness.
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There are still many different ways to get stuck, existentially stuck. Feeling like, “This is worthless. I’m wasting my time, and I would be wasting the time of someone who tried to read this.” It happens all the time.
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He was someone whom everyone admired and liked but whom nobody knew. He was like a book that you could feel good holding, that you could talk about without ever having read, that you could recommend.
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Everything is to protect you. I exist in case you need to be protected.
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We are not long-term beings. Not heroes of romances in many volumes. For one gesture, for one word alone, we shall make the effort. We openly admit: our creations will be temporary. We shall have this as our aim: a gesture.
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I have no need for the past, I thought, like a child. I did not consider that the past might have a need for me.
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There were things I wanted to tell him. But I knew they would hurt him. So I buried them, and let them hurt me.
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I’m sorry for my inability to let unimportant things go, for my inability to hold on to the important things.
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Most of the times that I think about my relationship to Judaism, I not only accuse myself of a shallowness, but I feel certain that there’s a shallowness there. That’s not a bad thing, really.
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People with nothing to declare carry the most.
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