In increments both measurable and not, our childhood is stolen from us — not always in one momentous event but often in a series of small robberies, which add up to the same loss.
JOHN IRVINGYou cannot drive with your eyes in the rear-view mirror… But dignity is difficult to maintain. Stamina requires constant upkeep. Repetition is boring. And you pay for grace.
More John Irving Quotes
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Nothing bears out in practice what it promises incipiently.
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I will tell you what is my overriding perception of the last twenty years: that we are a civilization careening toward a succession of anticlimaxes – toward an infinity of unsatisfying, and disagreeable endings.
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In an episodic treatment, such as a teleplay is, you have the ability to do what you can do in a novel, which is flash back and flash forward in the same instant, in the same scene, in the same voice.
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Be serious. Life hurts. Reflect what hurts. I don’t mean that you can’t also be funny, or have fun, but at the end of the day, stories are about what you lose.
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What a phrase that is: ‘that explains everything!’ I know better than to think anything ‘explains everything’ today.
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No adult in my family would ever tell me anything about who my father was. I knew from an older cousin – only four years older than I am – everything, or what little I could discover about him.
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Whereas she wished more of the population were better educated, she also believed that education was largely wasted on the majority of the people she met.
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There’s no reason you shouldn’t, as a writer, not be aware of the necessity to revise yourself constantly.
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Nearly everything seems a letdown after a writer has finished writing something.
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You can’t say you’re going to ban something in the name of good taste, because then you have directed someone to play the role of good-taste police. We – Americans – permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it.
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I think now that is the nature of hymns-they make us want to repeat them…they are a part of any service, and often the only part of a funeral service, that makes us feel everything is acceptable.
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It’s not right to hurt or deceive someone who’s already been hurt and deceived.
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Kids are beautiful, man. And they know much more than grownups think they know. Kids are just perfect people until grownups get their hands on them.
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I never know when I finish the novel I am writing which will be the next novel out of the station.
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Writing a novel is actually searching for victims. As I write I keep looking for casualties. The stories uncover the casualties.
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