It is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don’t expect me to change.
JOHN IRVINGWhat has been violated here is your freedom of choice, and every woman’s freedom of choice, too.
More John Irving Quotes
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The unspoken factor is love. The reason I can work so hard at my writing is that it’s not work for me.
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O God — please give him back! I shall keep asking You.
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No adult in my family would ever tell me anything about who my father was. I knew from an older cousin – only four years older than I am – everything, or what little I could discover about him.
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Life,” Garp wrote, “is sadly not structured like a good old-fashioned novel. Instead an end occurs when those who are meant to peter out have petered out. All that is left is memory. But even a nihilist has memory.
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Kids are beautiful, man. And they know much more than grownups think they know. Kids are just perfect people until grownups get their hands on them.
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…every study of the gods, of everyone’s gods, is a revelation of vengeance towards the innocent.
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The former stewardess glared at her ex-pilot husband as if he had been speaking, and thinking, in the absence of sufficient oxygen.
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There’s no reason you shouldn’t, as a writer, not be aware of the necessity to revise yourself constantly.
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If you feel strongly about people having abortions, don’t have one. But we are a country – USA – that likes to be punitive. We want to restrict. It is a kind of religious fervor run amuck.
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You only grow by coming to the end of something and by beginning something else.
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Whereas she wished more of the population were better educated, she also believed that education was largely wasted on the majority of the people she met.
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It is hard work and great art to make life not so serious.
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Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
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In the world according to her father, Jenny Garp knew, we must have energy. Her famous grandmother, Jenny Fields, once thought of us as Externals, Vital Organs, Absentees, and Goners. But in the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases.
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It is exhausting to be seventeen and not know who you are.
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