People are either attracted to the unseemly or disapproving of it, or both; yet we try to sound superior to the unseemly by pretending to be amused by it or indifferent to it.
JOHN IRVINGWhen Jack Burns needed to hold his mother’s hand, his fingers could see in the dark.
More John Irving Quotes
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Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
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I don’t begin a novel until I have written, not just the last sentence, but usually, as a result thereof, many of the surrounding final paragraphs, so that in addition to knowing what happens, I know what the voice is.
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I’ve always preferred writing in longhand. I’ve always written first drafts in longhand.
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When you legislate personal belief, you’re in violation of freedom of religion.
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I’m not a movie person. They’re collaborations of the worst kind. You must compromise yourself to many interests that are venal and crass and do not have your best interests at heart.
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You don’t want to be ungenerous toward people who give you prizes, but it is never the social or political message that interests me in a novel. I begin with an interest in a relationship, a situation, a character.
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If you presume to love something, you must love the process of it much more than you love the finished product.
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… and so he tried to accept the ache in his heart as what Dr. Larch would call the common symptoms of normal life.
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When writing a novel, I’m not smart enough to know how to foreshadow something if I don’t know what it is.
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I have a friend who says that reviewers are the tickbirds of the literary rhinoceros-but he is being kind. Tickbirds perform a valuable service to the rhino and the rhino hardly notices the birds.
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A part of adolescence is feelimg that there’s no one else around who’s enough like youself to understand you.
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I have always believed that, in a story, if something traumatic or calamitous enough happens to a kid at a formative age, that will make him or her the adult they become.
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…every study of the gods, of everyone’s gods, is a revelation of vengeance towards the innocent.
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Wrestling was my first success, the first thing that confirmed that I could be good at anything. Devoting yourself to wrestling, or tennis, or skiing, or dance, or to a musical instrument is a longing to be disciplined for a purpose.
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You cannot drive with your eyes in the rear-view mirror… But dignity is difficult to maintain. Stamina requires constant upkeep. Repetition is boring. And you pay for grace.
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