but good friends are nothing to each other if they are not supportive.
JOHN IRVINGIt is exhausting to be seventeen and not know who you are.
More John Irving Quotes
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No one but me ever put a hand on me to feel that baby. No one wanted to put his ear against it and listen…You shouldn’t have a baby if there’s no one who wants to feel it kick or listen to it move.
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If you feel strongly about people having abortions, don’t have one. But we are a country – USA – that likes to be punitive. We want to restrict. It is a kind of religious fervor run amuck.
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A writer’s job is to imagine everything so personally that the fiction is as vivid as memories.
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There are always suicides among people who are unable to say what they mean.
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…there was no more safety to be found in love than there was to be found in a virus.
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but writers, Garp knew, were just observers – good and ruthless imitators of human behavior.
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The main character and the most important character are not always the same person – you have to know the difference.
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You can’t say you’re going to ban something in the name of good taste, because then you have directed someone to play the role of good-taste police. We – Americans – permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it.
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I grew up in a family where, through my teenage years, I was expected to go to church on Sunday. It wasn’t terribly painful.
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They were involved in that awkward procedure of getting to unknow each other.
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Just when you begin thinking of yourself as memorable, you run into someone who can’t even remember having met you
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And when you love a book, commit one glorious sentence of it-perhaps your favorite sentence-to memory. That way you won’t forget the language of the story that moved you to tears.
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Everybody dies … The thing is, to have a life before we die.
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It’s not right to hurt or deceive someone who’s already been hurt and deceived.
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The lie, of course, is more interesting.
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