They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
JOHN IRVINGIt is exhausting to be seventeen and not know who you are.
More John Irving Quotes
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You can’t say you’re going to ban something in the name of good taste, because then you have directed someone to play the role of good-taste police. We – Americans – permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it.
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I always thought that you could do worse than find yourself dying in the company of a devoted former student.
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YOU LET ME DROWN!” Owen said. “YOU DIDN’T DO ANYTHING! YOU JUST WATCHED ME DROWN! I’M ALREADY DEAD!” he told us. “REMEMBER THAT: YOU LET ME DIE.
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People are either attracted to the unseemly or disapproving of it, or both; yet we try to sound superior to the unseemly by pretending to be amused by it or indifferent to it.
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It is exhausting to be seventeen and not know who you are.
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If you presume to love something, you must love the process of it much more than you love the finished product.
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Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
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He also knew that rivals are best unmanned by being ignored.
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The building of the architecture of a novel – the craft of it – is something I never tire of.
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You cannot drive with your eyes in the rear-view mirror… But dignity is difficult to maintain. Stamina requires constant upkeep. Repetition is boring. And you pay for grace.
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When you legislate personal belief, you’re in violation of freedom of religion.
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A part of adolescence is feelimg that there’s no one else around who’s enough like youself to understand you.
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Life forces enough final decisions on us. We should have the sense to avoid as many of the unnecessary ones as we can.
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Everybody dies … The thing is, to have a life before we die.
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Thus we try to keep our heroes alive; hence we remember them.
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