No one but me ever put a hand on me to feel that baby. No one wanted to put his ear against it and listen…You shouldn’t have a baby if there’s no one who wants to feel it kick or listen to it move.
JOHN IRVINGWhat is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
More John Irving Quotes
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I have always believed that, in a story, if something traumatic or calamitous enough happens to a kid at a formative age, that will make him or her the adult they become.
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There’s nothing as scary as the future.
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It is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don’t expect me to change.
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We permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it – and reward it in all manner of ways.
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The main character and the most important character are not always the same person – you have to know the difference.
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It’s not right to hurt or deceive someone who’s already been hurt and deceived.
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What is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
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You’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
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The way you define yourself as a writer is that you write every time you have a free minute. If you didn’t behave that way you would never do anything.
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Patriotism is not necessarily defined as blind devotion to a president’s particular agenda – and that to dispute a presidential policy is not necessarily anti-American.
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If you presume to love something, you must love the process of it much more than you love the finished product.
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I always thought that you could do worse than find yourself dying in the company of a devoted former student.
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If you feel strongly about people having abortions, don’t have one. But we are a country – USA – that likes to be punitive. We want to restrict. It is a kind of religious fervor run amuck.
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No one could have fathomed what a life he’d led, for it was chiefly a life lived in his mind.
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I suppose I’m proudest of my novels for what’s imagined in them. I think the world of my imagination is a richer and more interesting place than my personal biography.
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