They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
JOHN IRVING…I suddenly realized what small towns are. They are places where you grow up with the peculiar-you live next door to the strange and the unlikely for so long that everything and everyone become commonplace.
More John Irving Quotes
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Life,” Garp wrote, “is sadly not structured like a good old-fashioned novel. Instead an end occurs when those who are meant to peter out have petered out. All that is left is memory. But even a nihilist has memory.
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Plot is a map and I begin with it. It is what made me admire the novels of the 19th century; that the stories are foreshadowed. TheyÕre going someplace.
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O God — please give him back! I shall keep asking You.
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I still believe in getting married in churches and baptizing children. I go through those motions.
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Just when you begin thinking of yourself as memorable, you run into someone who can’t even remember having met you
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I’ve always been slow but I’m even slower now. I’m more into the waiting, or I guess I’m more patient about the waiting.
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Your memory is a monster; you forget – it doesn’t. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you – and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you!
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I’ve always preferred writing in longhand. I’ve always written first drafts in longhand.
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A novel is a piece of architecture. It’s not random wallowings or confessional diaries. It’s a building-it has to have walls and floors and the bathrooms have to work.
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It’s not right to hurt or deceive someone who’s already been hurt and deceived.
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No one could have fathomed what a life he’d led, for it was chiefly a life lived in his mind.
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Be serious. Life hurts. Reflect what hurts. I don’t mean that you can’t also be funny, or have fun, but at the end of the day, stories are about what you lose.
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If we live long enough, we become caricatures of ourselves.
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…every study of the gods, of everyone’s gods, is a revelation of vengeance towards the innocent.
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The building of the architecture of a novel – the craft of it – is something I never tire of.
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