You cannot drive with your eyes in the rear-view mirror… But dignity is difficult to maintain. Stamina requires constant upkeep. Repetition is boring. And you pay for grace.
JOHN IRVINGSelf-hatred is worse than loneliness.
More John Irving Quotes
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In the world according to her father, Jenny Garp knew, we must have energy. Her famous grandmother, Jenny Fields, once thought of us as Externals, Vital Organs, Absentees, and Goners. But in the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases.
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It is hard work and great art to make life not so serious.
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YOU LET ME DROWN!” Owen said. “YOU DIDN’T DO ANYTHING! YOU JUST WATCHED ME DROWN! I’M ALREADY DEAD!” he told us. “REMEMBER THAT: YOU LET ME DIE.
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He wished he could arrange a maiming as a kind of moral lesson
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I’m not afraid, but I’m very nervous.
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I have pretty thick skin, and I think if you’re going to be in this business, if you’re going to be an actor or a writer, you better have a thick skin.
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Life,” Garp wrote, “is sadly not structured like a good old-fashioned novel. Instead an end occurs when those who are meant to peter out have petered out. All that is left is memory. But even a nihilist has memory.
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When you legislate personal belief, you’re in violation of freedom of religion.
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If you feel strongly about people having abortions, don’t have one. But we are a country – USA – that likes to be punitive. We want to restrict. It is a kind of religious fervor run amuck.
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Just when you begin thinking of yourself as memorable, you run into someone who can’t even remember having met you
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What a phrase that is: ‘that explains everything!’ I know better than to think anything ‘explains everything’ today.
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The excitement of anticipation was *almost* equal to the thrill of lovemaking.
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People only ask questions when they’re ready to hear the answers.
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I have no respect for the right-to-life position, though I have every respect for an individual who says, “I could never have that procedure, I could never see a film or read a book about that procedure.” It doesn’t bother me if people feel that way.
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Whereas she wished more of the population were better educated, she also believed that education was largely wasted on the majority of the people she met.
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