This is what self-centered religion does to us: it allows us to use it to further our own ends.
JOHN IRVINGYou’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
More John Irving Quotes
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It’s not right to hurt or deceive someone who’s already been hurt and deceived.
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If we live long enough, we become caricatures of ourselves.
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As it was, things went from bad to worse, as they often will when amateurs are involved in an activity that they perform in bad temper – or in a hurry.
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Wrestling was my first success, the first thing that confirmed that I could be good at anything. Devoting yourself to wrestling, or tennis, or skiing, or dance, or to a musical instrument is a longing to be disciplined for a purpose.
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It is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don’t expect me to change.
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You know, everybody dies. My parents died. Your father died. Everybody dies. I’m going to die too. So will you. The thing is, to have a life before we die. It can be a real adventure having a life
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Watch out for people who call themselves religious; make sure you know what they mean – make sure they know what they mean!
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The ability to see the future can be a burden, and the younger you are and the more isolated you feel, maybe the more of a burden it is.
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but good friends are nothing to each other if they are not supportive.
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Thus we try to keep our heroes alive; hence we remember them.
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Writing a novel is actually searching for victims. As I write I keep looking for casualties. The stories uncover the casualties.
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A writer’s job is to imagine everything so personally that the fiction is as vivid as memories.
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All I say is: Let us leave les folles alone; let’s just leave them be. Don’t judge them. You are not superior to them – don’t put them down.
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We permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it – and reward it in all manner of ways.
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… and so he tried to accept the ache in his heart as what Dr. Larch would call the common symptoms of normal life.
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