Just when you begin thinking of yourself as memorable, you run into someone who can’t even remember having met you
JOHN IRVINGYou’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
More John Irving Quotes
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The main character and the most important character are not always the same person – you have to know the difference.
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Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
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but good friends are nothing to each other if they are not supportive.
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What is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
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You don’t want to be ungenerous toward people who give you prizes, but it is never the social or political message that interests me in a novel. I begin with an interest in a relationship, a situation, a character.
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They were involved in that awkward procedure of getting to unknow each other.
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Kids are beautiful, man. And they know much more than grownups think they know. Kids are just perfect people until grownups get their hands on them.
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I’ve always preferred writing in longhand. I’ve always written first drafts in longhand.
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No adult in my family would ever tell me anything about who my father was. I knew from an older cousin – only four years older than I am – everything, or what little I could discover about him.
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I always thought that you could do worse than find yourself dying in the company of a devoted former student.
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They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
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My life is a reading list.
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Our memory is a monster; you forget it – it does not.
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So, I don’t work in terms of real time. I don’t work in a timely fashion.
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When you legislate personal belief, you’re in violation of freedom of religion.
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