What is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
JOHN IRVINGYou’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
More John Irving Quotes
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Keep passing the open windows.
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My brain is sending poison to my heart.
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…there was no more safety to be found in love than there was to be found in a virus.
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What has been violated here is your freedom of choice, and every woman’s freedom of choice, too.
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I have pretty thick skin, and I think if you’re going to be in this business, if you’re going to be an actor or a writer, you better have a thick skin.
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A novel is a piece of architecture. It’s not random wallowings or confessional diaries. It’s a building-it has to have walls and floors and the bathrooms have to work.
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You can’t say you’re going to ban something in the name of good taste, because then you have directed someone to play the role of good-taste police. We – Americans – permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it.
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Wrestling was my first success, the first thing that confirmed that I could be good at anything. Devoting yourself to wrestling, or tennis, or skiing, or dance, or to a musical instrument is a longing to be disciplined for a purpose.
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The gardener had a dread of small women; he’d always imagined them to have an anger disproportionate to their size.
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…every study of the gods, of everyone’s gods, is a revelation of vengeance towards the innocent.
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Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
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It happens to many teenagers-that moment when you feel full of resentment or distrust for those adults you once loved unquestioningly.
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My life is a reading list.
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It’s not right to hurt or deceive someone who’s already been hurt and deceived.
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They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
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