They were involved in that awkward procedure of getting to unknow each other.
JOHN IRVINGYou’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
More John Irving Quotes
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The building of the architecture of a novel – the craft of it – is something I never tire of.
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If pride is a sin … moral pride is the greatest sin.
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This is what self-centered religion does to us: it allows us to use it to further our own ends.
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So, I don’t work in terms of real time. I don’t work in a timely fashion.
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What a phrase that is: ‘that explains everything!’ I know better than to think anything ‘explains everything’ today.
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No one could have fathomed what a life he’d led, for it was chiefly a life lived in his mind.
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I’ve always preferred writing in longhand. I’ve always written first drafts in longhand.
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What has been violated here is your freedom of choice, and every woman’s freedom of choice, too.
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Plot is a map and I begin with it. It is what made me admire the novels of the 19th century; that the stories are foreshadowed. TheyÕre going someplace.
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In this world,” Franny once observed, “just as you’re trying to think of yourself as memorable, there is always someone who forgets that that they have met you.
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Just when you begin thinking of yourself as memorable, you run into someone who can’t even remember having met you
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… and so he tried to accept the ache in his heart as what Dr. Larch would call the common symptoms of normal life.
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It is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don’t expect me to change.
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Don’t you understand?” he would say, “You imagine the story better than I remember it.
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Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
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