You know, everybody dies. My parents died. Your father died. Everybody dies. I’m going to die too. So will you. The thing is, to have a life before we die. It can be a real adventure having a life
JOHN IRVINGHe wished he could arrange a maiming as a kind of moral lesson
More John Irving Quotes
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A writer’s job is to imagine everything so personally that the fiction is as vivid as memories.
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It’s not right to hurt or deceive someone who’s already been hurt and deceived.
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This is what self-centered religion does to us: it allows us to use it to further our own ends.
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You can’t say you’re going to ban something in the name of good taste, because then you have directed someone to play the role of good-taste police. We – Americans – permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it.
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Life is serious but art is fun!
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Your memory is a monster; you forget – it doesn’t. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you – and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you!
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When writing a novel, I’m not smart enough to know how to foreshadow something if I don’t know what it is.
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People are either attracted to the unseemly or disapproving of it, or both; yet we try to sound superior to the unseemly by pretending to be amused by it or indifferent to it.
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Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
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We permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it – and reward it in all manner of ways.
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I have a friend who says that reviewers are the tickbirds of the literary rhinoceros-but he is being kind. Tickbirds perform a valuable service to the rhino and the rhino hardly notices the birds.
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Children are most impressed with the importance of a moment when they witness a parent breaking the parents’ own rule.
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You’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
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When I finally write the first sentence, I want to know everything that happens, so that I am not inventing the story as I write it – rather, I am remembering a story that has already happened.
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I’m not afraid, but I’m very nervous.
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