I grew up in a family where, through my teenage years, I was expected to go to church on Sunday. It wasn’t terribly painful.
JOHN IRVINGHow we love to love things for other people; how we love to have other people love things through our eyes.
More John Irving Quotes
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Being reviewed is being condescended to by your inferiors.
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We permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it – and reward it in all manner of ways.
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THERE’S NO MONKEY BUSINESS ABOUT THIS ELECTION,’ he told the voters. ‘IF YOU’RE ENOUGH OF AN ASSHOLE TO VOTE FOR NIXON, YOUR DUMB VOTE WILL BE COUNTED––JUST LIKE ANYBODY ELSE!
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The lie, of course, is more interesting.
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Writing a novel is actually searching for victims. As I write I keep looking for casualties. The stories uncover the casualties.
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I’m not a movie person. They’re collaborations of the worst kind. You must compromise yourself to many interests that are venal and crass and do not have your best interests at heart.
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Life forces enough final decisions on us. We should have the sense to avoid as many of the unnecessary ones as we can.
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You don’t want to be ungenerous toward people who give you prizes, but it is never the social or political message that interests me in a novel. I begin with an interest in a relationship, a situation, a character.
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You’ve got to get obsessed and stay obsessed.
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It is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don’t expect me to change.
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You cannot drive with your eyes in the rear-view mirror… But dignity is difficult to maintain. Stamina requires constant upkeep. Repetition is boring. And you pay for grace.
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People only ask questions when they’re ready to hear the answers.
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I don’t begin a novel until I have written, not just the last sentence, but usually, as a result thereof, many of the surrounding final paragraphs, so that in addition to knowing what happens, I know what the voice is.
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Death, it seems,” Garp wrote, “does not like to wait until we are prepared for it. Death is indulgent and enjoys, when it can, a flair for the dramatic.
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There’s no reason you shouldn’t, as a writer, not be aware of the necessity to revise yourself constantly.
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