but good friends are nothing to each other if they are not supportive.
JOHN IRVINGHow we love to love things for other people; how we love to have other people love things through our eyes.
More John Irving Quotes
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I still believe in getting married in churches and baptizing children. I go through those motions.
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People only ask questions when they’re ready to hear the answers.
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O God — please give him back! I shall keep asking You.
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Life,” Garp wrote, “is sadly not structured like a good old-fashioned novel. Instead an end occurs when those who are meant to peter out have petered out. All that is left is memory. But even a nihilist has memory.
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You know, everybody dies. My parents died. Your father died. Everybody dies. I’m going to die too. So will you. The thing is, to have a life before we die. It can be a real adventure having a life
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He had in abundance youth’s most dangerous qualities: optimism and relentlessness. He would risk everything he had to fly the plane that could carry the bomb within him.
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The unspoken factor is love. The reason I can work so hard at my writing is that it’s not work for me.
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In the world according to her father, Jenny Garp knew, we must have energy. Her famous grandmother, Jenny Fields, once thought of us as Externals, Vital Organs, Absentees, and Goners. But in the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases.
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What is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
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I’ve always been slow but I’m even slower now. I’m more into the waiting, or I guess I’m more patient about the waiting.
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My life is a reading list.
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The ability to see the future can be a burden, and the younger you are and the more isolated you feel, maybe the more of a burden it is.
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THERE’S NO MONKEY BUSINESS ABOUT THIS ELECTION,’ he told the voters. ‘IF YOU’RE ENOUGH OF AN ASSHOLE TO VOTE FOR NIXON, YOUR DUMB VOTE WILL BE COUNTED––JUST LIKE ANYBODY ELSE!
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Thus we try to keep our heroes alive; hence we remember them.
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They were involved in that awkward procedure of getting to unknow each other.
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