If you feel strongly about people having abortions, don’t have one. But we are a country – USA – that likes to be punitive. We want to restrict. It is a kind of religious fervor run amuck.
JOHN IRVINGYou know, everybody dies. My parents died. Your father died. Everybody dies. I’m going to die too. So will you. The thing is, to have a life before we die. It can be a real adventure having a life
More John Irving Quotes
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The gardener had a dread of small women; he’d always imagined them to have an anger disproportionate to their size.
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The ability to see the future can be a burden, and the younger you are and the more isolated you feel, maybe the more of a burden it is.
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No adult in my family would ever tell me anything about who my father was. I knew from an older cousin – only four years older than I am – everything, or what little I could discover about him.
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Life is an X-rated soap opera.
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Don’t you understand?” he would say, “You imagine the story better than I remember it.
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It’s not right to hurt or deceive someone who’s already been hurt and deceived.
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Thus we try to keep our heroes alive; hence we remember them.
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O God — please give him back! I shall keep asking You.
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I think now that is the nature of hymns-they make us want to repeat them…they are a part of any service, and often the only part of a funeral service, that makes us feel everything is acceptable.
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I grew up in a family where, through my teenage years, I was expected to go to church on Sunday. It wasn’t terribly painful.
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If you asked me one day, I might say, “Well, sometimes I feel a little bit religious.” If you asked me another day, I’d just say flat out, “No.”
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but good friends are nothing to each other if they are not supportive.
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What a phrase that is: ‘that explains everything!’ I know better than to think anything ‘explains everything’ today.
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What is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
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He wished he could arrange a maiming as a kind of moral lesson
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