but good friends are nothing to each other if they are not supportive.
JOHN IRVINGbut good friends are nothing to each other if they are not supportive.
JOHN IRVINGIt happens to many teenagers-that moment when you feel full of resentment or distrust for those adults you once loved unquestioningly.
JOHN IRVING…every study of the gods, of everyone’s gods, is a revelation of vengeance towards the innocent.
JOHN IRVINGI have no respect for the right-to-life position, though I have every respect for an individual who says, “I could never have that procedure, I could never see a film or read a book about that procedure.” It doesn’t bother me if people feel that way.
JOHN IRVINGWhen writing a novel, I’m not smart enough to know how to foreshadow something if I don’t know what it is.
JOHN IRVINGBeing reviewed is being condescended to by your inferiors.
JOHN IRVINGChildren are most impressed with the importance of a moment when they witness a parent breaking the parents’ own rule.
JOHN IRVINGA novel is a piece of architecture. It’s not random wallowings or confessional diaries. It’s a building-it has to have walls and floors and the bathrooms have to work.
JOHN IRVINGWhat is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
JOHN IRVINGWhat a phrase that is: ‘that explains everything!’ I know better than to think anything ‘explains everything’ today.
JOHN IRVINGThere is no straightforward negotiation with a four year old.
JOHN IRVINGWriting a novel is actually searching for victims. As I write I keep looking for casualties. The stories uncover the casualties.
JOHN IRVINGWhereas she wished more of the population were better educated, she also believed that education was largely wasted on the majority of the people she met.
JOHN IRVINGThe lie, of course, is more interesting.
JOHN IRVINGAs it was, things went from bad to worse, as they often will when amateurs are involved in an activity that they perform in bad temper – or in a hurry.
JOHN IRVINGThe unspoken factor is love. The reason I can work so hard at my writing is that it’s not work for me.
JOHN IRVING