It’s not right to hurt or deceive someone who’s already been hurt and deceived.
JOHN IRVINGIn this world,” Franny once observed, “just as you’re trying to think of yourself as memorable, there is always someone who forgets that that they have met you.
More John Irving Quotes
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O God — please give him back! I shall keep asking You.
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Everybody dies … The thing is, to have a life before we die.
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A writer’s job is to imagine everything so personally that the fiction is as vivid as memories.
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In this world,” Franny once observed, “just as you’re trying to think of yourself as memorable, there is always someone who forgets that that they have met you.
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I have a friend who says that reviewers are the tickbirds of the literary rhinoceros-but he is being kind. Tickbirds perform a valuable service to the rhino and the rhino hardly notices the birds.
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Don’t forget this, too: Rumors aren’t interested in the unsensational story; rumors don’t care what’s true.
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Nearly everything seems a letdown after a writer has finished writing something.
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Keep passing the open windows.
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Life,” Garp wrote, “is sadly not structured like a good old-fashioned novel. Instead an end occurs when those who are meant to peter out have petered out. All that is left is memory. But even a nihilist has memory.
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What has been violated here is your freedom of choice, and every woman’s freedom of choice, too.
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Life forces enough final decisions on us. We should have the sense to avoid as many of the unnecessary ones as we can.
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I have always believed that, in a story, if something traumatic or calamitous enough happens to a kid at a formative age, that will make him or her the adult they become.
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…every study of the gods, of everyone’s gods, is a revelation of vengeance towards the innocent.
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There’s no reason you shouldn’t, as a writer, not be aware of the necessity to revise yourself constantly.
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Just when you begin thinking of yourself as memorable, you run into someone who can’t even remember having met you
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