This is what self-centered religion does to us: it allows us to use it to further our own ends.
JOHN IRVINGIn this world,” Franny once observed, “just as you’re trying to think of yourself as memorable, there is always someone who forgets that that they have met you.
More John Irving Quotes
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Rituals are comforting; rituals combat loneliness.
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You know, everybody dies. My parents died. Your father died. Everybody dies. I’m going to die too. So will you. The thing is, to have a life before we die. It can be a real adventure having a life
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The gardener had a dread of small women; he’d always imagined them to have an anger disproportionate to their size.
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Wrestling was my first success, the first thing that confirmed that I could be good at anything. Devoting yourself to wrestling, or tennis, or skiing, or dance, or to a musical instrument is a longing to be disciplined for a purpose.
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But I often think that so-called glamorous people are just very busy people.
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There are always suicides among people who are unable to say what they mean.
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What is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
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My brain is sending poison to my heart.
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We permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it – and reward it in all manner of ways.
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A sentence boiled in her, but she could not yet see it clearly.
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Children are most impressed with the importance of a moment when they witness a parent breaking the parents’ own rule.
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Everybody dies … The thing is, to have a life before we die.
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You’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
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I write very quickly; I rewrite very slowly. It takes me nearly as long to rewrite a book as it does to get the first draft.
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Religious freedom should work two ways: we should be free to practice the religion of our choice, but we must also be free from having someone else’s religion practiced on us.
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