No one could have fathomed what a life he’d led, for it was chiefly a life lived in his mind.
JOHN IRVINGEverybody dies … The thing is, to have a life before we die.
More John Irving Quotes
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Patriotism is not necessarily defined as blind devotion to a president’s particular agenda – and that to dispute a presidential policy is not necessarily anti-American.
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Wrestling was my first success, the first thing that confirmed that I could be good at anything. Devoting yourself to wrestling, or tennis, or skiing, or dance, or to a musical instrument is a longing to be disciplined for a purpose.
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You’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
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Life forces enough final decisions on us. We should have the sense to avoid as many of the unnecessary ones as we can.
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The building of the architecture of a novel – the craft of it – is something I never tire of.
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People only ask questions when they’re ready to hear the answers.
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Life is an X-rated soap opera.
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When I finally write the first sentence, I want to know everything that happens, so that I am not inventing the story as I write it – rather, I am remembering a story that has already happened.
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Plot is a map and I begin with it. It is what made me admire the novels of the 19th century; that the stories are foreshadowed. TheyÕre going someplace.
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Nearly everything seems a letdown after a writer has finished writing something.
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You know, everybody dies. My parents died. Your father died. Everybody dies. I’m going to die too. So will you. The thing is, to have a life before we die. It can be a real adventure having a life
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Whereas she wished more of the population were better educated, she also believed that education was largely wasted on the majority of the people she met.
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There are always suicides among people who are unable to say what they mean.
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In the world according to her father, Jenny Garp knew, we must have energy. Her famous grandmother, Jenny Fields, once thought of us as Externals, Vital Organs, Absentees, and Goners. But in the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases.
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Rituals are comforting; rituals combat loneliness.
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