The former stewardess glared at her ex-pilot husband as if he had been speaking, and thinking, in the absence of sufficient oxygen.
JOHN IRVINGEverybody dies … The thing is, to have a life before we die.
More John Irving Quotes
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I’ve always been slow but I’m even slower now. I’m more into the waiting, or I guess I’m more patient about the waiting.
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Writing a novel is actually searching for victims. As I write I keep looking for casualties. The stories uncover the casualties.
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You don’t want to be ungenerous toward people who give you prizes, but it is never the social or political message that interests me in a novel. I begin with an interest in a relationship, a situation, a character.
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Life forces enough final decisions on us. We should have the sense to avoid as many of the unnecessary ones as we can.
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O God — please give him back! I shall keep asking You.
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What a phrase that is: ‘that explains everything!’ I know better than to think anything ‘explains everything’ today.
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A novel is a piece of architecture. It’s not random wallowings or confessional diaries. It’s a building-it has to have walls and floors and the bathrooms have to work.
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There’s no reason you shouldn’t, as a writer, not be aware of the necessity to revise yourself constantly.
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In increments both measurable and not, our childhood is stolen from us — not always in one momentous event but often in a series of small robberies, which add up to the same loss.
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Be serious. Life hurts. Reflect what hurts. I don’t mean that you can’t also be funny, or have fun, but at the end of the day, stories are about what you lose.
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In this world,” Franny once observed, “just as you’re trying to think of yourself as memorable, there is always someone who forgets that that they have met you.
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It happens to many teenagers-that moment when you feel full of resentment or distrust for those adults you once loved unquestioningly.
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Don’t you understand?” he would say, “You imagine the story better than I remember it.
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The lie, of course, is more interesting.
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Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
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