This is what self-centered religion does to us: it allows us to use it to further our own ends.
JOHN IRVINGChildren are most impressed with the importance of a moment when they witness a parent breaking the parents’ own rule.
More John Irving Quotes
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In this world,” Franny once observed, “just as you’re trying to think of yourself as memorable, there is always someone who forgets that that they have met you.
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In an episodic treatment, such as a teleplay is, you have the ability to do what you can do in a novel, which is flash back and flash forward in the same instant, in the same scene, in the same voice.
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…I suddenly realized what small towns are. They are places where you grow up with the peculiar-you live next door to the strange and the unlikely for so long that everything and everyone become commonplace.
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What has been violated here is your freedom of choice, and every woman’s freedom of choice, too.
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I’m not afraid, but I’m very nervous.
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I have a friend who says that reviewers are the tickbirds of the literary rhinoceros-but he is being kind. Tickbirds perform a valuable service to the rhino and the rhino hardly notices the birds.
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You can’t say you’re going to ban something in the name of good taste, because then you have directed someone to play the role of good-taste police. We – Americans – permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it.
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And when you love a book, commit one glorious sentence of it-perhaps your favorite sentence-to memory. That way you won’t forget the language of the story that moved you to tears.
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Rituals are comforting; rituals combat loneliness.
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I always thought that you could do worse than find yourself dying in the company of a devoted former student.
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I still believe in getting married in churches and baptizing children. I go through those motions.
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…there was no more safety to be found in love than there was to be found in a virus.
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When you legislate personal belief, you’re in violation of freedom of religion.
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In the world according to her father, Jenny Garp knew, we must have energy. Her famous grandmother, Jenny Fields, once thought of us as Externals, Vital Organs, Absentees, and Goners. But in the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases.
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In increments both measurable and not, our childhood is stolen from us — not always in one momentous event but often in a series of small robberies, which add up to the same loss.
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