Life,” Garp wrote, “is sadly not structured like a good old-fashioned novel. Instead an end occurs when those who are meant to peter out have petered out. All that is left is memory. But even a nihilist has memory.
JOHN IRVINGChildren are most impressed with the importance of a moment when they witness a parent breaking the parents’ own rule.
More John Irving Quotes
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Whereas she wished more of the population were better educated, she also believed that education was largely wasted on the majority of the people she met.
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Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
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Being reviewed is being condescended to by your inferiors.
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Patriotism is not necessarily defined as blind devotion to a president’s particular agenda – and that to dispute a presidential policy is not necessarily anti-American.
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Plot is a map and I begin with it. It is what made me admire the novels of the 19th century; that the stories are foreshadowed. TheyÕre going someplace.
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Your memory is a monster; you forget – it doesn’t. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you – and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you!
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The gardener had a dread of small women; he’d always imagined them to have an anger disproportionate to their size.
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O God — please give him back! I shall keep asking You.
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Rituals are comforting; rituals combat loneliness.
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Keep passing the open windows.
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The way you define yourself as a writer is that you write every time you have a free minute. If you didn’t behave that way you would never do anything.
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What has been violated here is your freedom of choice, and every woman’s freedom of choice, too.
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Watch out for people who call themselves religious; make sure you know what they mean – make sure they know what they mean!
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I always thought that you could do worse than find yourself dying in the company of a devoted former student.
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I’ve always been slow but I’m even slower now. I’m more into the waiting, or I guess I’m more patient about the waiting.
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