We are created for adventure, and if we cannot find one, we start blowing things out of proportion so it feels like we have one.
JOHN ELDREDGEThe meaning of our lives is revealed through experiences that at first seem at odds with each other–moments we wish would never end and moments we wish had never begun.
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So long as man remains no real threat to the Enemy, Satan’s line to him is ‘You’re fine’. But after you do take sides, it becomes ‘Your heart is bad and you know it’.
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Adventure, with all its requisite danger and wildness, is a deeply spiritual longing written into the soul of man.
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A man needs a much bigger orbit than a woman. He needs a mission, a life purpose, and he needs to know his name. Only then is he fit for a woman, for only then does he have something to invite her into.
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Every man is a warrior inside. But the choice to fight is his own.
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We don’t live in the Garden. We live far from Eden. Every life is full of heartaches. Every life, frankly, is unspeakably sad.
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Caring for our own hearts isn’t selfishness; it’s how we begin to love.
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It was men who stopped slavery. It was men who ran up the stairs in the Twin Towers to rescue people. It was men who gave up their seats on the lifeboats of the Titanic. Men are made to take risks and live passionately on behalf of others.
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They ignore what is deep and true to a man’s heart, his real passions, and simply try to shape him up through various forms of pressure.
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A man must have a battle to fight, a great mission to his life that involves and yet transcends even home and family.
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In the end, it doesn’t matter how well we have performed or what we have accomplished—a life without heart is not worth living.
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My heart matters to God. My heart has always mattered to him.
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I wasn’t mean; I wasn’t evil. I was nice. And let me tell you, a hesitant man is the last thing in the world a woman needs. She needs a lover and a warrior, not a Really Nice Guy.
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Most of what you encounter when you meet a man is a facade, an elaborate fig leaf, a brilliant disguise.
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There is something about human nature that just doesn’t want to face the reality that we live in two worlds. We live in the physical, material world where we have jobs, read books, and go about our business. And we live in a spiritual world – and that is a world at war.
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When a woman forsakes her vulnerability because she’s been hurt or because she lives in a dangerous world or doesn’t want to be used, she loses something essential about being a woman.
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Without the anticipation of better things ahead, we will have no heart for the journey.
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But a wound unfelt is a wound unhealed.
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Contentment can only happen as we increase desire, let it run itself out towar its fulfilment, and carry us along with it.
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A wound that goes unacknowledged and unwept is a wound that cannot heal.
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Story is the language of the heart.
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If we can reawaken that fierce quality in a man, hook it up to a higher purpose, release the warrior within, then the boy can grow up and become truly masculine.
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Reading the Gospels, without the personality of Jesus, is like watching television with the sound turned off.
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Henri Nouwen once asked Mother Teresa for spiritual direction. Spend one hour each day in adoration of your Lord, she said, and never do anything you know is wrong. Follow this and you’ll be fine.
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I don’t write anything that I haven’t lived. In terms of integrity, you have to write what you live. And if you write beyond what you live, it is theory. And theory is not helpful. It is just not.
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God endowed you with a glory when he created you, a glory so deep and mythic that all creation pales in comparison.
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A true knowledge of Jesus is our greatest need and our greatest happiness.
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