A positive engagement to marry a certain person at a certain time, at all haps and hazards, I have always considered the most ridiculous thing on earth.
JANE WELSH CARLYLE
JANE WELSH CARLYLE
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Jane Welsh Carlyle27 quotes“A positive engagement to marry a certain person at a certain time, at all haps and hazards, I have always considered the most ridiculous thing on earth.”
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Infringing upon (or encroaching) the right of a single person, we overthrow (or turn upside down) the whole order on which rest legal agreements; for if we break (or transgress or violate).
Afrikan SpirAfrikan Spir One man restored our fortunes by delay. [By skilfully avoiding an engagement, Fabius exhausted the resources of the enemy.]
Quintus EnniusQuintus Ennius It is impossible for men engaged in low and groveling pursuits to have noble and generous sentiments. A man’s thought must always follow his employment.
DemosthenesDemosthenes Spiritual people are not those who engage in certain spiritual practices; they are those who draw their life from a conversational relationship with God.
Dallas WillardDallas Willard We must either reduce the number of our engagements or increase the number of our troops.
Adam SchiffAdam Schiff Everyone expects us to have a sense of urgency for life’s big things. Life measures us by how we engage ourselves in the little things.
Bob ProctorBob Proctor For want of self-restraint many men are engaged all their lives in fighting with difficulties of their own making.
Samuel SmilesSamuel Smiles Men keep their engagements when it is an advantage to both parties not to break them.
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