Before you find out who you are, you have to figure out who you aren’t.
IYANLA VANZANTWhen we have peace in our hearts and minds, we draw peace into our lives.
More Iyanla Vanzant Quotes
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Your willingness to look at your darkness is what empowers you to change.
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Each day, focus your attention on what you want. Each day, take one step that will bring you closer to it. ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE! The key is to identify it, claim it for yourself, and believe that you are worthy to have it.
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Loving yourself has nothing to do with being selfish, self-centered or self-engrossed. It means that you accept yourself for what you are. Loving yourself means that you accept responsibility for your own development, growth and happiness.
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Fear wears so many clever disguises it is virtually impossible to always recognize it. Fear disguises itself as the need to be somewhere else, doing something else, not knowing how to do something or not needing to do something.
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It takes a lot more courage to let something go than it does to hang on to it, trying to make it better. Letting go doesn’t mean ignoring a situation. Letting go means accepting what is, exactly as it is, without fear, resistance, or a struggle for control.
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The only thing that goes on in your life is what your allow to go on in your life.
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If you don’t ask for what you need, the need will keep getting bigger.
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When your life is working there will be an absence of drama.
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You set the standards for how you will be treated. People will treat you the exact way you treat yourself. So be good to you. Take time for yourself. Rest. Play. Shower yourself with affection, support, and gifts.
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When you continue to give without receiving, the only thing you are proving is that you know how to be taken advantage of.
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With all things in life, we do not get what we ask for, we get what we expect.
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When we have peace in our hearts and minds, we draw peace into our lives.
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Don’t get hung up on the hard times, the challenges. Tell your story by highlighting the victories. Because it’s your victories that will inspire, motivate, encourage other people to live their stories in grander ways.
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We set the standard of how we want to be treated. Our relationships are reflections of the relationships we have with ourselves.
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If you are afraid to take a chance, take one anyway. What you don’t do can create the same regrets as the mistakes you make.
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