We are all the judges and the judged, victims of the casual malice and fantasy of others, and ready sources of fantasy and malice in our turn. And if we are sometimes accused of sins of which we are innocent, are there not also other sins of which we are guilty and of which the world knows nothing?
IRIS MURDOCHWriting is like getting married. One should never commit oneself until one is amazed at one’s luck.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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I’ve felt as if I didn’t exist, as if I were invisible, miles away from the world, miles away. You can’t imagine how much alone I’ve been all my life.
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The theatre is certainly a place for learning about the brevity of human glory: oh all those wonderful glittering absolutely vanished pantomime! Now I shall abjure magic and become a hermit : put myself in a situation where I can honestly say that I have nothing else to do but to learn to be good.
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In philosophy if you aren’t moving at a snail’s pace you aren’t moving at all.
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Jealousy is the most dreadfully involuntary of all sins.
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What an extraordinary satisfaction there is in cleaning things! (Does the satisfaction depend on ownership? I suspect so.
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There is no substitute for the comfort supplied by the utterly taken-for-granted relationship.
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Love is the extremely difficult realization that something other than oneself is real.
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I just enjoy translating, it’s like opening one’s mouth and hearing someone else’s voice emerge.
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Violence is born of the desire to escape oneself.
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To lose somebody is to lose not only their person but all those modes and manifestations into which their person has flowed outwards; so that in losing a beloved one may find so many things, pictures, poems, melodies, places lost too: Dante, Avignon, a song of Shakespeare’s, the Cornish sea.
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I took a deep breath, however, and followed my rule of never speaking frankly to women in moments of emotion. No good ever comes of this.
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There is no beyond, there is only here, the infinitely small, infinitely great and utterly demanding present.
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Art and psychoanalisis give shape and meaning to life and that’s why we adore them. However, life as it is lived has no shape nor meaning, and that’s what I am experiencing right now.
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We defend ourselves with descriptions and tame the world by generalizing.
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I think being a woman is like being Irish, Everyone says you’re important and nice, but you take second place all the time.
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