Every persisting marriage is based on fear’, said Peregrine. ‘Fear is fundamental, you dig down in human nature and what’s at the bottom? Mean spiteful cruel self-regarding fear, whether it makes you to put the foot in it or whether it makes you to cower.
IRIS MURDOCHThis sort of quiet gazing, which was like a feeding of the heart.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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Time, like the sea, unties all knots.
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The most essential and fundamental aspect of culture is the study of literature, since this is an education in how to picture and understand human situations.
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I took a deep breath, however, and followed my rule of never speaking frankly to women in moments of emotion. No good ever comes of this.
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One of the secrets of a happy life is continous small treats.
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I’ve been so unhappy for years, so unhappy, I don’t understand how a human being can be so unhappy all the time and still be alive.
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I have nobody in the world. I’ll kill myself. That’s best. Everyone will say, It’s for the best that she killed herself, she’s better off dead. I hate myself so much I could spend hours and hours just screaming with hatred and with the pain of it, oh the pain of it.
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That doesn’t sound like you, you ride every wave. There is one that will drown me
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There is no beyond, there is only here, the infinitely small, infinitely great and utterly demanding present.
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However life, unlike art, has an irritating way of bumping and limping on, undoing conversions, casting doubt on solutions, and generally illustrating the impossibility of living happily or virtuously ever after.
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We are all prisoner, but the name of our cure is not freedom.
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Falling out of love is chiefly a matter of forgetting how charming someone is.
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The theatre is certainly a place for learning about the brevity of human glory: oh all those wonderful glittering absolutely vanished pantomime! Now I shall abjure magic and become a hermit : put myself in a situation where I can honestly say that I have nothing else to do but to learn to be good.
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I think being a woman is like being Irish, Everyone says you’re important and nice, but you take second place all the time.
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There is a gulf fixed between those who can sleep and those who cannot. It is one of the greatest divisions of the human race.
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People from a planet without flowers would think we must be mad with joy the whole time to have such things about us.
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