I don’t think I can marry, I’m not fit for it, I’m not real enough. That’s the trouble. I’m a puppet that’s realised what’s wrong with itself and it’s horrible. I’m propped up somewhere all alone, watching the real people go past. I’m propped up crying in a corner.
IRIS MURDOCHThis sort of quiet gazing, which was like a feeding of the heart.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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Art and psychoanalisis give shape and meaning to life and that’s why we adore them. However, life as it is lived has no shape nor meaning, and that’s what I am experiencing right now.
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Guilt keeps people imprisoned in themselves.
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Violence is born of the desire to escape oneself.
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An experience is richest not talked of.
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What an extraordinary satisfaction there is in cleaning things! (Does the satisfaction depend on ownership? I suspect so.
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Jealousy is perhaps the most involuntary of all strong emotions. It steals consciousness, it lies deeper than thought. It is always there, like a blackness in the eye, it discolours the world.
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What I needed with all my starved and silent soul was just that particular way of shouting back at the world.
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People have obsessions and fears and passions which they don’t admit to. I think every character is interesting and has extremes. It’s the novelist privilege to see how odd everyone is.
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To lose somebody is to lose not only their person but all those modes and manifestations into which their person has flowed outwards; so that in losing a beloved one may find so many things, pictures, poems, melodies, places lost too: Dante, Avignon, a song of Shakespeare’s, the Cornish sea.
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We can only learn to love by loving.
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I feel half faded away like some figure in the background of an old picture.
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Of course reading and thinking are important but, my God, food is important too.
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How huge it is, how empty, this great space for which I have been longing all my life. Still no letters.
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Perhaps when distant people on other planets pick up some wavelength of ours all they hear is a continuous scream.
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White magic is black magic. A less than perfect meddling in the spiritual world can breed monsters for other people, and demons used for good can hang around and make mischief afterwards.
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