The great illusion of leadership is to think that man can be led out of the desert by someone who has never been there.
HENRI NOUWENListening is a form of spiritual hospitality by which you invite strangers to become friends, to get to know their inner selves more fully, and even to dare to be silent with you.
More Henri Nouwen Quotes
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The only feelings that do not heal are the ones you hide.
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Hospitality is not to change people, but to offer them space where change can take place.
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Your life is not going to be easy, and it should not be easy. It ought to be hard. It ought to be radical; it ought to be restless; it ought to lead you to places you’d rather not go.
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Hope means to keep living amid desperation and to keep humming in the darkness.
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Prayer is not what is done by us, but rather what is done by the Holy Spirit in us.
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Much violence is based on the illusion that life is a property to be defended and not to be shared.
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Prayer is first of all listening to God. It’s openness. God is always speaking; he’s always doing something.
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We are called to be fruitful – not successful, not productive, not accomplished. Success comes from strength, stress, and human effort. Fruitfulness comes from vulnerability and the admission of our own weakness.
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Dear God, I am so afraid to open my clenched fists! Who will I be when I have nothing left to hold on to? Who will I be when I stand before you with empty hands? Please help me to gradually open my hands and to discover that I am not what I own, but what you want to give me.
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This brief lifetime is my opportunity to receive love, deepen love, grow in love, and give love.
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In our own woundedness, we can become sources of life for others.
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Those we most love cause us not only great joy but also great pain. LOVE is stronger than fear, life stronger than death, hope stronger than despair. We have to trust that the risk of loving is always worth taking.
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Compassion can never coexist with judgement because judgement creates the distance, the distinction, which prevents us from really being with the other.
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The main question is not, how can we hide our wounds but how can we put our woundedness in service to others.
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I am the prodigal son every time I search for unconditional love where it cannot be found.
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