Compassion can never coexist with judgement because judgement creates the distance, the distinction, which prevents us from really being with the other.
HENRI NOUWENI trust in you, Lord, but keep helping me in my moments of distrust and doubt.
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When we are crushed like grapes, we cannot think of the wine we will become.
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Compassion requires us to be weak with the weak, vulnerable with the vulnerable, and powerless with the powerless. Compassion means full immersion in the condition of being human.
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If you feel loved, you can do a thousand things. If you feel rejected, everything becomes a problem.
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The main question is not, how can we hide our wounds but how can we put our woundedness in service to others.
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Every time there are losses, there are choices to be made. You choose to live your losses as passages to anger, blame, hatred, depression and resentment, or you choose to let these losses be passages to something new, something wider, and deeper.
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The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing that is a friend who cares.
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Somewhere we know that without silence words lose their meaning, that without listening speaking no longer heals, that without distance closeness cannot cure.
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I am the prodigal son every time I search for unconditional love where it cannot be found.
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Much violence is based on the illusion that life is a property to be defended and not to be shared.
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We cannot make it rain but we can see to it that the rain falls on prepared soil.
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Spiritual maturity is not knowing what to do with your whole life, but just knowing what to do next.
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Our life is a time in which sadness and joy kiss each other at every moment.
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Be surprised by joy, be surprised by the little flower that shows its beauty in the midst of a barren desert, and be surprised by the immense healing power that keeps bursting forth like springs of fresh water from the depth of our pain.
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Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.
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In our own woundedness, we can become sources of life for others.
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