The church is not an institution forcing us to follow rules but a community inviting us to still our hunger and thirst at its table.
HENRI NOUWENThe church is not an institution forcing us to follow rules but a community inviting us to still our hunger and thirst at its table.
HENRI NOUWENForgiveness changes the way we remember.
HENRI NOUWENWhat makes us human is not our mind but our heart, not our ability to think but our ability to love.
HENRI NOUWENEvery time I take a step in the direction of generosity, I know I am moving from fear to love.
HENRI NOUWENIt is in solitude that we discover that being is more important than having and that we are worth more than the results of our efforts. In solitude we discover that our life is not a possession to be defended but a gift to be shared.
HENRI NOUWENThe spiritual life is a life beyond moods. It is a life in which we choose joy and do not allow ourselves to become victims of passing feelings of happiness or depression.
HENRI NOUWENOur humanity comes to its fullest bloom in giving. We become beautiful people when we give whatever we can give: a smile, a handshake, a kiss, an embrace, a word of love, a present, a part of our life…all of our life.
HENRI NOUWENSomewhere we know that without silence words lose their meaning, that without listening speaking no longer heals, that without distance closeness cannot cure.
HENRI NOUWENOne of the tragedies of our life is that we keep forgetting who we are.
HENRI NOUWENMy whole life I have been complaining that my work was constantly interrupted, until I discovered that my interruptions were my work.
HENRI NOUWENPay attention to the people God puts in your path if you want to discern what God is up to in your life.
HENRI NOUWENEvery time there are losses, there are choices to be made. You choose to live your losses as passages to anger, blame, hatred, depression and resentment, or you choose to let these losses be passages to something new, something wider, and deeper.
HENRI NOUWENThe great illusion of leadership is to think that man can be led out of the desert by someone who has never been there.
HENRI NOUWENThe only feelings that do not heal are the ones you hide.
HENRI NOUWENThe main question is not, how can we hide our wounds but how can we put our woundedness in service to others.
HENRI NOUWENCommunity is first of all a quality of the heart. It grows from the spiritual knowledge that we are alive not for ourselves but for one another.
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