Keep a space where God can let something totally new take place.
HENRI NOUWENKeep a space where God can let something totally new take place.
HENRI NOUWENListening is a form of spiritual hospitality by which you invite strangers to become friends, to get to know their inner selves more fully, and even to dare to be silent with you.
HENRI NOUWENCompassion can never coexist with judgement because judgement creates the distance, the distinction, which prevents us from really being with the other.
HENRI NOUWENThe greatest trap in our life is not success, popularity or power, but self-rejection.
HENRI NOUWENJoy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.
HENRI NOUWENIf you feel loved, you can do a thousand things. If you feel rejected, everything becomes a problem.
HENRI NOUWENWaiting time is not wasting time. Waiting patiently in expectation is the foundation of the spiritual life.
HENRI NOUWENWe are all healers who can reach out and offer health, and we are all patients in constant need of help.
HENRI NOUWENThe spiritual life is a life beyond moods. It is a life in which we choose joy and do not allow ourselves to become victims of passing feelings of happiness or depression.
HENRI NOUWENHospitality is not to change people, but to offer them space where change can take place.
HENRI NOUWENCommunity is first of all a quality of the heart. It grows from the spiritual knowledge that we are alive not for ourselves but for one another.
HENRI NOUWENFor Jesus, there are no countries to be conquered, no ideologies to be imposed, no people to be dominated. There are only children, women and men to be loved.
HENRI NOUWENOur greatest fulfillment lies in giving ourselves to others.
HENRI NOUWENWe are called to be fruitful – not successful, not productive, not accomplished. Success comes from strength, stress, and human effort. Fruitfulness comes from vulnerability and the admission of our own weakness.
HENRI NOUWENEvery time there are losses, there are choices to be made. You choose to live your losses as passages to anger, blame, hatred, depression and resentment, or you choose to let these losses be passages to something new, something wider, and deeper.
HENRI NOUWENThose we most love cause us not only great joy but also great pain. LOVE is stronger than fear, life stronger than death, hope stronger than despair. We have to trust that the risk of loving is always worth taking.
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