The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing that is a friend who cares.
HENRI NOUWENLife is just a little opportunity for you during a few years to say, “I love you, too.”
More Henri Nouwen Quotes
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This brief lifetime is my opportunity to receive love, deepen love, grow in love, and give love.
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Compassion can never coexist with judgement because judgement creates the distance, the distinction, which prevents us from really being with the other.
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It is in solitude that we discover that being is more important than having and that we are worth more than the results of our efforts. In solitude we discover that our life is not a possession to be defended but a gift to be shared.
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I often wonder if my knowledge about God has not become my greatest stumbling block to my knowledge of God.
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We cannot make it rain but we can see to it that the rain falls on prepared soil.
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Self-rejection is the greatest enemy of the spiritual life because it contradicts the sacred voice that calls us the Beloved.
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Hope means to keep living amid desperation and to keep humming in the darkness.
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Joy is the experience of knowing that you are unconditionally loved.
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What makes us human is not our mind but our heart, not our ability to think but our ability to love.
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Forgiveness changes the way we remember.
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Spiritual maturity is not knowing what to do with your whole life, but just knowing what to do next.
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We are called to be fruitful – not successful, not productive, not accomplished. Success comes from strength, stress, and human effort. Fruitfulness comes from vulnerability and the admission of our own weakness.
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Our humanity comes to its fullest bloom in giving. We become beautiful people when we give whatever we can give: a smile, a handshake, a kiss, an embrace, a word of love, a present, a part of our life…all of our life.
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Community means that people come together around the table, not just to feed their bodies, but to feed their minds and their relationships.
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Let’s not be afraid to look at everything that has brought us to where we are now and trust that we will soon see in it the guiding hand of a loving God.
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