“A story has no beginning or end: arbitrarily one chooses that moment of experience from which to look back or from which to look ahead.”

For an artist to think in terms of success is like a priest trying to think in terms of success.

Our worst enemies here are not the ignorant and simple, however cruel; our worst enemies are the intelligent and corrupt.

I can’t talk you in terms of time –your time and my time are different

I had to touch you with my hands, I had to taste you with my tongue; one can’t love and do nothing.

We never get accustomed to being less important to other people than they are to us.

To be in love is to see yourself as someone else sees you, it is to be in love with the falsified and exalted image of yourself. In love we are incapable of honor – the courageous act is no more than playing a part to an audience of two.

I aim to be content with what I produce. It’s an aim I never achieve, but I go over my work word by word, time and again, so as to be as little dissatisfied as possible.

Innocence is a kind of insanity.

Most things disappoint till you look deeper.

Human nature is not black and white but black and grey.

Champagne, if you are seeking the truth, is better than a lie detector.

People who like quotes love meaningless generalizations.

One has no talent. I have no talent. It’s just a question of working, of being willing to put in the time.

As long as nothing happens anything is possible.

The great advantage of being a writer is that you can spy on people. You’re there, listening to every word, but part of you is observing. Everything is useful to a writer, you see – every scrap, even the longest and most boring of luncheon parties.

Of two hearts one is always warm and one is always cold: the cold heart is more precious than diamonds: the warm heart has no value and is thrown away.

My healing isn’t a choice to abandon others, it’s a choice to no longer abandon myself.

Pain is inevitable. To Live in pain is a choice.

Never regret the choices you made. We all have a different mindset in a different situation.

Being oppressed means the absence of choices.

Your choices will define you; so make them the right ones.

Hate is a choice you make when you keep your ego on top of everything in your life.

Militant feminists are pro-choice because it’s their ultimate avenue of power over men.

As humans grew stronger, I think that we became quite arrogant, losing the sorrow of ‘we have no other choice.’