Loving someone is a loss of freedom – but one doesn’t think of it as loss because one gains so much else.
ERICA JONGYoung people never believe in the possibility of their own deaths. That’s one reason old men can send them to war.
More Erica Jong Quotes
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Art is always an energy exchange.
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Conflict is the soul of literature.
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You see a lot of smart guys with dumb women, but you hardly ever see a smart woman with a dumb guy.
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The trick is not how much pain you feel–but how much joy you feel. Any idiot can feel pain.
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I see that the greatest thing about getting older is how your judgment changes and how you come to understand the cycles of life. And you keep having these amazing flashes of understanding.
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Images are … a kind of emotional shorthand.
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The dilemma is that if one does not risk anything one risks even more.
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No one ever found wisdom without also being a fool. Writers, alas, have to be fools in public, while the rest of the human race can cover its tracks.
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The trick is not how much pain you feel – but how much joy you feel
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I want you. I want you. I want you. Anything to avoid saying: I love you.
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Photographs are the most curious indicators of reality.
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I don’t know what the definition of pornography is and nobody else does either. Pornography is somebody else’s erotica that you don’t like.
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Breast-feeding may succumb to the bottle; cuddling, fondling, and paediatric visits may also be done by fathers…but when a child needs a mother to talk to, nobody else but a mother will do.
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I don’t think you could ever know just how truly special you are that even on the darkest nights you are my brightest star
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Take your life in your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame.
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Keeping a journal implies hope.
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Solitude is un-American.
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A book is a box brimming with incendiary material. The reader strikes the match.
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As long as I’m facing the right direction, it doesn’t matter the size of my steps.
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Motherhood cannot finally be delegated.
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The greatest feminists have also been the greatest lovers. I’m thinking not only of Mary Wollstonecraft and her daughter Mary Shelley, but of Anais Nin, Edna St. Vincent Millay, and of course Sappho.
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Is a currency worth anything if no one wants it? We used to buy shoes in Italy. Remember?
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Fear is a sign-usually a sign that I’m doing something right.
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Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it’s cracked up to be. That’s why people are so cynical about it.
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The only difference between men and women is that women are able to create new little human beings in their bodies while simultaneously writing books, driving tractors, working in offices, planting crops – in general, doing everything men do.
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Memory is the most transient of all possessions. And when it goes, it leaves as few traces as stars that have disappeared.
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