The trick is not how much pain you feel–but how much joy you feel. Any idiot can feel pain.
ERICA JONGBetrayal betrays the betrayer.
More Erica Jong Quotes
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Unhappiness is our element. We come to believe we can’t function without it.
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Breast-feeding may succumb to the bottle; cuddling, fondling, and paediatric visits may also be done by fathers…but when a child needs a mother to talk to, nobody else but a mother will do.
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Divorce is my generation’s coming of age ceremony – a ritual scarring that makes anything that happens afterward seem bearable.
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I don’t think you could ever know just how truly special you are that even on the darkest nights you are my brightest star
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There is a rhythm to the ending of a marriage just like the rhythm of a courtship, only backward.
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Silence is the bluntest of blunt instruments.
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The greatest feminists have also been the greatest lovers. I’m thinking not only of Mary Wollstonecraft and her daughter Mary Shelley, but of Anais Nin, Edna St. Vincent Millay, and of course Sappho.
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As women got little crumbs of power, men began to act paranoid – as if we’d disabled them utterly.
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They keep saying the right person will come along. I think mine got hit by a truck.
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The dilemma is that if one does not risk anything one risks even more.
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I vowed to give up sex, bacon, and air travel if I ever made it back to terra firma in one piece.
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The only difference between men and women is that women are able to create new little human beings in their bodies while simultaneously writing books, driving tractors, working in offices, planting crops – in general, doing everything men do.
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Every country gets the circus it deserves. Spain gets bullfights. Italy the Church. America Hollywood.
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Take your life in your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame.
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Art is always an energy exchange.
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If, every day, I dare to remember that I am here on loan, that this house, this hillside, these minutes are all leased to me, not given, I will never despair.
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Souls have neither Sex nor Colour.
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I have accepted fear as a part of life – specifically the fear of change… I have gone ahead despite the pounding in the heart that says: turn back.
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Women are the only exploited group in history to have been idealized into powerlessness.
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In loving life you love what can’t survive.
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I do believe that in every age there are people whose consciousness transcends their own time and that these people, whether fictional or historical, are those with whom we most closely identify and those about whom we most enjoy reading.
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A new dog never replaces an old dog, it merely expands the heart.
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Because I loved myself, I was loved.
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We are so scared of being judged that we look for every excuse to procrastinate.
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If sex and creativity are often seen by dictators as subversive activities, it’s because they lead to the knowledge that you own your own body (and with it your own voice), and that’s the most revolutionary insight of all.
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You can’t be creative and still be a good girl.
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