Divorce is my generation’s coming of age ceremony – a ritual scarring that makes anything that happens afterward seem bearable.
ERICA JONGWhat I would like to give my daughter is freedom. And this is something that must be given by example, not exhortation.
More Erica Jong Quotes
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Take your life in your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame.
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A new dog never replaces an old dog, it merely expands the heart.
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The only difference between men and women is that women are able to create new little human beings in their bodies while simultaneously writing books, driving tractors, working in offices, planting crops – in general, doing everything men do.
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Unhappiness is our element. We come to believe we can’t function without it.
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Solitude is un-American.
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It is the nature of those books we call classics to wait patiently on the shelf for us to grow into them.
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Freedom is a loose leash, license to be different from your mother and still be loved…Freedom is…not insisting that your daughter share your limitations. Freedom also means letting your daughter reject you when she needs to and come back when she needs to. Freedom is unconditional love.
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In a world where women work three times as hard for half as much, our achievement has been denigrated, both marriage and divorce have turned against us, our motherhood has been used as an obstacle to our success, our passion as a trap.
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Is a currency worth anything if no one wants it? We used to buy shoes in Italy. Remember?
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Do all women have to keep silent for men to speak? Do all women have to be legless for men to walk?
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As long as I’m facing the right direction, it doesn’t matter the size of my steps.
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It is the city of mirrors, the city of mirages, at once solid and liquid, at once air and stone.
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Friends love misery… our misery is what endears us to our friends.
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You cannot divide creative juices from human juices. And as long as juicy women are equated with bad women, we will err on the side of being bad.
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There is no loneliness like the loneliness of a dead marriage.
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