Memory is the most transient of all possessions. And when it goes, it leaves as few traces as stars that have disappeared.
ERICA JONGBecause I loved myself, I was loved.
More Erica Jong Quotes
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If you imagine the world listening, you’ll never write a line. That’s why privacy is so important. You should write first drafts as if they will never be shown to anyone.
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Is a currency worth anything if no one wants it? We used to buy shoes in Italy. Remember?
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The greatest feminists have also been the greatest lovers. I’m thinking not only of Mary Wollstonecraft and her daughter Mary Shelley, but of Anais Nin, Edna St. Vincent Millay, and of course Sappho.
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Compose with utter freedom and edit with utter discipline.
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Love is love, but marriage is an investment.
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If we are all made of God, it is our friends who remind us. We pass the gift of God to them. They pass it back to us when we need it most.
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People always think that history proceeds in a straight line. It doesn’t. Social attitudes don’t change in a straight line.
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Divorce is my generation’s coming of age ceremony – a ritual scarring that makes anything that happens afterward seem bearable.
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A book burrows into your life in a very profound way because the experience of reading is not passive.
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You see a lot of smart guys with dumb women, but you hardly ever see a smart woman with a dumb guy.
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As women got little crumbs of power, men began to act paranoid – as if we’d disabled them utterly.
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We were not human beings going through spiritual experiences; we were spiritual beings going through human experiences, in order to grow.
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Fame means millions of people have the wrong idea of who you are.
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How wonderful to have someone to blame! How wonderful to live with one’s nemesis! You may be miserable, but you feel forever in the right.
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The words carry their own momentum. A confession in motion tends to stay in motion. Newton’s first law of jealousy.
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I don’t know what the definition of pornography is and nobody else does either. Pornography is somebody else’s erotica that you don’t like.
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What was the point of spending your life with someone you were always looking for ways to decieve?
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Solitude is un-American.
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Courage is the only Magic worth having.
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Freedom is a loose leash, license to be different from your mother and still be loved…Freedom is…not insisting that your daughter share your limitations. Freedom also means letting your daughter reject you when she needs to and come back when she needs to. Freedom is unconditional love.
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I look forward and see myself look back.
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If sex and creativity are often seen by dictators as subversive activities, it’s because they lead to the knowledge that you own your own body (and with it your own voice), and that’s the most revolutionary insight of all.
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Love is everything it’s cracked up to be. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for.
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Dogs come into our lives to teach us about love and loyalty. They depart to teach us about loss.
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Our empathy for others as an excuse to underpay us.
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A new dog never replaces an old dog; it merely expands the heart. If you have loved many dogs, your heart is very big.
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