Really true intimacy is rare and it depends on other things besides sex.
ERICA JONGReally true intimacy is rare and it depends on other things besides sex.
ERICA JONGWomen are their own worst enemies. And guilt is the main weapon of self-torture . . . Show me a woman who doesn’t feel guilty and I’ll show you a man.
ERICA JONGNo one ever found wisdom without also being a fool. Writers, alas, have to be fools in public, while the rest of the human race can cover its tracks.
ERICA JONGFreedom is a loose leash, license to be different from your mother and still be loved…Freedom is…not insisting that your daughter share your limitations. Freedom also means letting your daughter reject you when she needs to and come back when she needs to. Freedom is unconditional love.
ERICA JONGOf all the foolish Fears of Humankind, Fear of the Future is by far the most foolish.
ERICA JONGPhotographs are the most curious indicators of reality.
ERICA JONGYoung people never believe in the possibility of their own deaths. That’s one reason old men can send them to war.
ERICA JONGCreativity demands nothing less than all you have. Talent alone is never enough.
ERICA JONGA book is a box brimming with incendiary material. The reader strikes the match.
ERICA JONGGossip is the opiate of the oppressed.
ERICA JONGAdvice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn’t.
ERICA JONGYou are always naked when you start writing; you are always as if you had never written anything before; you are always a beginner.
ERICA JONGI do believe that in every age there are people whose consciousness transcends their own time and that these people, whether fictional or historical, are those with whom we most closely identify and those about whom we most enjoy reading.
ERICA JONGThere is a rhythm to the ending of a marriage just like the rhythm of a courtship, only backward.
ERICA JONGI vowed to give up sex, bacon, and air travel if I ever made it back to terra firma in one piece.
ERICA JONGI myself hate that old Hemingwayesque paradigm of the writer as prizefighter and I have tried hard to create an alternate one for myself.
ERICA JONG