Though my friends envied me because I always seemed so cheerful and confident, I was secretly terrified of practically everything.
ERICA JONGIt takes courage to lead a life. Any life.
More Erica Jong Quotes
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Always do the things you fear the most. Courage is an acquired taste, like caviar.
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What was the point of spending your life with someone you were always looking for ways to decieve?
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No one ever found wisdom without also being a fool. Writers, alas, have to be fools in public, while the rest of the human race can cover its tracks.
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Women are the only exploited group in history to have been idealized into powerlessness.
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I don’t think you will ever fully understand how you’ve touched my life and made me who I am.
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There’s always a backlash against progressive ideas.
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It is the nature of those books we call classics to wait patiently on the shelf for us to grow into them.
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Our empathy for others as an excuse to underpay us.
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Love is love, but marriage is an investment.
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If you imagine the world listening, you’ll never write a line. That’s why privacy is so important. You should write first drafts as if they will never be shown to anyone.
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The only difference between men and women is that women are able to create new little human beings in their bodies while simultaneously writing books, driving tractors, working in offices, planting crops – in general, doing everything men do.
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Women are their own worst enemies. And guilt is the main weapon of self-torture . . . Show me a woman who doesn’t feel guilty and I’ll show you a man.
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Someday every woman will have orgasms- like every family has color TV- and we can all get on with the business of life.
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People are interested in their own sexuality and they’ve always reflected it in their art. End of story.
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How wonderful to have someone to blame! How wonderful to live with one’s nemesis! You may be miserable, but you feel forever in the right.
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Love is everything it’s cracked up to be. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for.
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If, every day, I dare to remember that I am here on loan, that this house, this hillside, these minutes are all leased to me, not given, I will never despair.
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There is no loneliness like the loneliness of a dead marriage.
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I look forward and see myself look back.
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A book is a box brimming with incendiary material. The reader strikes the match.
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A new dog never replaces an old dog, it merely expands the heart.
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What I would like to give my daughter is freedom. And this is something that must be given by example, not exhortation.
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Gossip is the opiate of the oppressed.
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Often I find that poems predict what I’m going to do later in my own writing, and often I find that poems predict my life. So I think poetry is the most intense expression of feeling that we have.
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Do all women have to keep silent for men to speak? Do all women have to be legless for men to walk?
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It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don’t risk anything, you risk even more.
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