It is our attitude toward events, not events themselves, which we can control. Nothing is by its own nature calamitous, even death is terrible only if we fear it.
EPICTETUSPeople are not disturbed by things, but by the views they take of them.
More Epictetus Quotes
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All philosophy lies in two words, sustain and abstain.
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It is more necessary for the soul to be cured than the body; for it is better to die than to live badly.
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Books are the training weights of the mind.
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Attach yourself to what is spiritually superior, regardless of what other people think or do. Hold to your true aspirations no matter what is going on around you.
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Happiness and freedom begin with a clear understanding of one principle.
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When you are offended at any man’s fault, turn to yourself and study your own failings. Then you will forget your anger.
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Try not to react merely in the moment. Pull back from the situation. Take a wider view. Compose yourself.
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It is not he who reviles or strikes you who insults you, but your opinion that these things are insulting.
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Wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants.
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The best place to get help is from yourself.
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You become what you give your attention to. If you yourself don’t choose what thoughts and images you expose yourself to, someone else will, and their motives may not be the highest.
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Circumstances don’t make the man, they only reveal him to himself.
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If you want to improve, be content to be thought foolish and stupid.
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When we blather about trivial things, we ourselves become trivial, for our attention gets taken up with trivialities. You become what you give your attention to.
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Make the best use of what is in your power, and take the rest as it happens.
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It’s time to stop being vague. If you wish to be an extraordinary person, if you wish to be wise, then you should explicitly identify the kind of person you aspire to become.
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Don’t demand or expect that events happen as you would wish them do. Accept events as they actually happen. That way, peace is possible.
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The more we value things outside our control, the less control we have.
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We all dread a bodily paralysis, and would make use of every contrivance to avoid it; but none of us is troubled about a paralysis of the soul.
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Don’t be concerned with other people’s impressions of you. They are dazzled and deluded by appearances. Stick with your purpose. This alone will strengthen your will and give your life coherence.
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Other people’s views and troubles can be contagious. Don’t sabotage yourself by unwittingly adopting negative, unproductive attitudes through your associations with others.
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You can be happy if you know this secret: Some things are within your power to control and some things are not.
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If you wish to live a life free from sorrow, think of what is going to happen as if it had already happened.
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Don’t live by your own rules, but in harmony with nature.
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Whoever is going to listen to the philosophers needs a considerable practice in listening.
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Have the wisdom to know what cannot be changed, and the strength to change what can.
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