I no longer protect myself from the world I grew up in. Rather, today I try to protect the feelings I have for that world, the emotional space where my desire to write first took hold, and still grows.
ELENA FERRANTEI had to discover very quickly that class origins cannot be erased, regardless of whether we climb up or down the sociocultural ladder.
More Elena Ferrante Quotes
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I believe that books, once they are written, have no need of their authors.
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A calendar, you have to calculate how much time has passed between you and the facts, the emotions to be narrated.
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Is it possible that even happy moments of pleasure never stand up to a rigorous examination? Possible.
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Competition between women is good only if it does not prevail; that is to say if it coexists with affinity, affection, with a real sense of being mutually indispensable, with sudden peaks of solidarity in spite of envy, jealousy and the whole inevitable cohort of bad feelings.
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I am the queen of spades, I am the wasp that stings, I am the dark serpent. I am the invulnerable animal who passes through fire and is not burned.
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The essential, however, was to know how to play, and she and I, only she and I, knew how to do it.
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Those who write need that “willing suspension of disbelief “, as Coleridge called it.
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In order not to cut out a large part of one’s private life, the creative work should not swallow up every other form of self-expression. But that is the most complicated thing.
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Even as I felt myself solidly contained by the expectant looks of my children. It was the fault of the torture that my husband had inflicted. But enough, I had to tear the pain from memory, I had to sandpaper away the scratches that were damaging my brain.
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Climbing the economic ladder has been very hard for me; I still feel a great deal of guilt towards those I left behind.
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My work stops at publication. If the books don’t contain in themselves their reasons for being – questions and answers – it means I was wrong to have them published.
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Anonymity lets me concentrate exclusively on writing.
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He was going through one of those moments that you read about in books, when a character reacts in an unexpectedly extreme way to the normal discontents of living.
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Women, in all fields – whether mothers or not – still encounter an extraordinary number of obstacles. They have to hold too many things together and often sacrifice their aspirations in the name of affections.
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The circle of an empty day is brutal and at night it tightens around your neck like a noose
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