It’s not what people do to you, but what they mean, that hurts.
E. M. FORSTERSpoon feeding in the long run teaches us nothing but the shape of the spoon.
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Faith, to my mind, is a stiffening process, a sort of mental starch, which ought to be applied as sparingly as possible. I dislike the stuff. I do not believe in it, for its own sake, at all… My lawgivers are Erasmus and Montaigne, not Moses and St Paul.
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There are periods in the most thrilling day during which nothing happens, and though we continue to exclaim, “I do enjoy myself”, or , “I am horrified,” we are insincere.
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The final test for a novel will be our affection for it, as it is the test of our friends, and of anything else which we cannot define.
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Have you ever noticed that there are people who do things which are most indelicate, and yet at the same time – beautiful?
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I am sure that if the mothers of various nations could meet, there would be no more wars.
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But the body is deeper than the soul and its secrets inscrutable.
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School was the unhappiest time of my life and the worst trick it ever played on me was to pretend that it was the world in miniature. For it hindered me from discovering how lovely and delightful and kind the world can be, and how much of it is intelligible.
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I believe in teaching people to be individuals, and to understand other individuals.
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I have only got down on to paper, really, three types of people: the person I think I am, the people who irritate me, and the people I’d like to be.
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I can only do what’s easy. I can only entice and be enticed. I can’t, and won’t, attempt difficult relations. If I marry it will either be a man who’s strong enough to boss me or whom I’m strong enough to boss.
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We cast a shadow on something wherever we stand, and it is no good moving from place to place to save things; because the shadow always follows. Choose a place where you won’t do harm – yes, choose a place where you won’t do very much harm, and stand in it for all you are worth, facing the sunshine.
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If I had to choose between betraying my country and betraying my friend, I hope I should have the guts to betray my country.
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The emotions may be endless. The more we express them, the more we may have to express.
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One has two duties – to be worried and not to be worried.
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Human relations are impossible. When they are real they are uncomfortable, and when they are comfortable they are unreal. It was for the journey into solitude that the human soul was created.
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