Your suffering is shaped exactly by your refusal to open.
DAVID DEIDAYour suffering is shaped exactly by your refusal to open.
DAVID DEIDAAnyone who separates being and doing is still enjoying separation.
DAVID DEIDAMasculine anger is always because you are feeling constrained, trapped by life. Feminine anger is always because you are feeling unloved.
DAVID DEIDAWhen you are in love with a man or a woman, the love you feel does not come from him or her; it is the love flowing from you own heart that you feel. Your partner is simply giving you an excuse to love. Love is always found flowing in your heart, not in your family, lover, career or art.
DAVID DEIDASpend at least an hour today giving your fullest gift, whatever that is for today, so that when you go to sleep at night you know you couldn’t have lived your day with more courage, creativity, and giving.
DAVID DEIDAYou are not only a man, you are a superior man: a man who does his best to live as love in the world and in his intimacy, a man whose heart remains open and whose truth remains strong.
DAVID DEIDAIf you are waiting for anything in order to live and love without holding back, then you suffer.
DAVID DEIDAThe real practice of love goes beyond satisfaction and dissatisfaction. Wallowing in pleasure can be just as limiting as wallowing in pain if you don’t open your heart beyond the satisfaction of your personal emotional needs.
DAVID DEIDAInstant enlightenment is to give all your happiness away to others.
DAVID DEIDAWe must see that we are afraid of the thing we most desire, and so we live a mediocre life, never bringing to consummation the primary impulse of our heart.
DAVID DEIDAThe energy that moves life is the force of the Feminine. She is unstoppable. She is the source of all life, the mover of blood, the breather of breath, the flow of the river’s water. The Feminine is life. We can feel Her moving and living in any moment we are open to Her, or as Her.
DAVID DEIDAYou have the opportunity to free fall in this moment between birth and death, right through the hole of your fear, into the unthreatenable openess which is the source of your gifts. The superior man lives as this spontaneous sacrifice of love.
DAVID DEIDAEvery moment of your life is either a test or a celebration.
DAVID DEIDAEvery moment waited is a moment wasted.
DAVID DEIDAMasculine and feminine aspects exist in all beings.
DAVID DEIDAIf you are waiting for anything in order to live and love without holding back, then you suffer. Every moment is the most important moment of your life. No future time is better than now to let down your guard and love.
DAVID DEIDA