I’m a much better writer for being a father.
CHRIS CLEAVENobody has the time to sit down and explain the first world from first principles.
More Chris Cleave Quotes
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Things that we have to really dare ourselves to do come quite naturally to others.
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We no longer need to show people being brave: instead, we can examine how they became brave. We can assume that they didn’t start out that way. If we allow that they started out just like us, then their journey into courage becomes both more fascinating and more impressive.
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Yet war doesn’t end with armistice, it only ends with forgiveness and reconciliation.
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Is it my fault if I do not look like an English girl and I do not talk like a Nigerian? Well, who says an English girl must have skin as pale as the clouds that float across her summers? Who says a Nigerian girl must speak in fallen English…?
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Death, of course, is a refuge. It’s where you go when a new name, or a mask and cape, can no longer hide you from yourself. It’s where you run to when none of the principalities of your conscience will grant you asylum.
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If I could not smile, I think my situation would be even more serious.
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Sometimes we don’t notice that someone is being brave, because they are only doing something that seems quite easy for us.
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To be well in your mind you have first to be free.
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Andrew had a gift for deepening the incision he began.
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Psychiatry in this place is like serving an in-flight meal in the middle of a plane crash. If I wanted to make you well, as a doctor, I should be giving you a parachute, not a cheese-and-pickle sandwich.
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I’m not happy with just repeating myself.
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If I can’t write it would be as if I died.
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Still shaking, in the pew, I understood that it isn’t the dead we cry for. We cry for ourselves, and I didn’t deserve my own pity.
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[My maternal grandmother ] was a teacher in London and elsewhere during the war, although the children she taught were not the “lost children” who feature in the novel – those come from my research.
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I could not stop talking because now I had started my story, it wanted to be finished. We cannot choose where to start and stop. Our stories are the tellers of us.
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