“He tried everything to silence her except for kindness and remorse -only love softens a voice.”

He told me ‘I must be a story’ but for me-he always was.

You blame your father but it was your mother who did not keep you safe -why you won’t trust women.

My sweet girl: of course he has to object project & reject for if he didn’t he’d have to admit that he loves you -wise words from her therapist’s office.

You are the only one who lost -the rest stayed.

I am proud of the love I gave you it was laced in loyalty & light.

Children raised by mothers who do not keep their children sheltered from the wrath of their fathers, end up mistrusting women.

You make the pain I make it art-the girl with the soft heart.

You can water a plant but it has to want to grow.

Is your love the storm or the lighthouse?

I will not beg you to keep me- I can house my own heart.

His fear of exile led to mine -there was room for both of us in belonging.

Don’t buy their greatest lie – social media.

he made me raw & fragile & reminded me of all the things I had not healed

If you think you are the only one allowed to act in anger then no-one will ever be enough-my pain matters.

I am not here to fight with you I’m here to sit with you in love- Lets take the gloves off.

Root yourself in love.