I meditated on love and reasoned it out. I realized what is wrong with us. Men fall in love for the first time. And what do they fall in love with? …They fall in love with a woman. They start at the wrong end of love. They begin at the climax.
CARSON MCCULLERSThe lover craves any possible relation with the beloved, even if this experience can cause him only pain.
More Carson McCullers Quotes
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I was like a cat always climbing the wrong tree.
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The trouble with me is that for a long time I have just been an I person.
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Can you wonder it is so miserable? Do you know how men should love? A tree. A rock. A cloud.
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I want – I want – I want – was all that she could think about – but just what this real want was she did not know.
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We are torn between nostalgia for the familiar and an urge for the foreign and strange.
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Because in some men it is in them to give up everything personal at some time, before it ferments and poisons–throw it to some human being or some human idea. They have to.
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The world is certainty a sudden place.
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It is music that causes the heart to broaden and the listener to grow cold with ecstasy and fright.
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The whole world was this symphony, and there was not enough of her to listen… Now that it was over there was only her heart beating like a rabbit and this terrible hurt.
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All people belong to a We except me. Not to belong to a We makes you too lonesome.
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There is no stillness like the quiet of the first cold nights in the fall.
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The Heart is a Lonely Hunter.
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Doctors, by God; washing their hands, looking out windows, fiddling with dreadful things while you are stretched out on a table or half undressed on a chair.
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Next to music beer was best.
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For fear is a primary source of evil. And when the question “Who am I?” recurs and is unanswered, then fear and frustration project a negative attitude.
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