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We calculate their value to us. When we approach relationships in this manner, we are coming as beggars, seeing the other as a source of supply.

Brenda Shoshanna

Zen practice asks you not to worry about who you ‘should’ become. Find out who you are right now.
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Practice Should Worry
When we are in a truly loving relationship, we receive the gift of being known and accepted. We become more, not less, of who we are.
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Love Relationship Space
What we pay attention to expands. What we pay attention to we become.
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Attention Become Expand Pay
Now today, moment by moment, realize that each person and event that happens is life for you. Life is not somewhere else. See how fully you can accept the life that presents itself to you now.
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Else Events Somewhere Today
our joy and satisfaction comes from doing each action with a whole heart and mind. Results and consequences then take care of themselves. When you are not absorbed by concern for outcomes, how much anxiety can you ever have?
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Absorb Attention Result Themselves
Do not make this practice a source of pressure, compulsion, anxiety or pride. It is none of these. Zazen is simply a way to find your true home.
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Home Practice Pride
Consider for a moment what you pay attention to all day long. What seems important to you, what do you take for granted and hardly attend to at all? Write it down. Do not judge your answers.
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Honesty Simple Writing
A time of uncertainty, of not knowing exactly where we’re headed, or what kind of choice to make is a Zen moment.
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Choices Knowing Time
Who you are is always enough. If your partner wants something different, it does not reflect upon you, but upon their needs and fantasies.
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Different People Something Want
Relying on another is an expression of attachment, not love, a manifestation of insecurity and suffering, not understanding the true nature of our lives.
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Attachment Love Nature
Fear of the future and longing for the past are major factors which impede appropriate action.
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Action Future Past
From the Zen view all beings are in the grip of the three poisons, greed, anger and delusion (ignorance).
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Anger Ignorance Views
If one’s sense of self is obtained through the eyes of another it is always subject to being lost.
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Eye Lost Self Sense
The sense that my world is stable and stationary, that change will never come and that all will go on continuously as it is, is the nature of all delusion.
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Change Goes Nature
It is a mistake to expect all of our needs to be met by one person or in one relationship. Honor and be grateful for that which you receive.
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Mistake Relationship Time
The more we give attention to that which is upsetting, the more strength it has to rule our lives.
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Lived More Rule Strength

We calculate their value to us. When we approach relationships in this manner, we are coming as beggars, seeing the other as a source of supply.

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