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A time of uncertainty, of not knowing exactly where we’re headed, or what kind of choice to make is a Zen moment.

Brenda Shoshanna

Consider for a moment what you pay attention to all day long. What seems important to you, what do you take for granted and hardly attend to at all? Write it down. Do not judge your answers.
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Honesty Simple Writing
We calculate their value to us. When we approach relationships in this manner, we are coming as beggars, seeing the other as a source of supply.
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Beggar Coming Relationship Source Supply
our joy and satisfaction comes from doing each action with a whole heart and mind. Results and consequences then take care of themselves. When you are not absorbed by concern for outcomes, how much anxiety can you ever have?
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Absorb Attention Result Themselves
The sense that my world is stable and stationary, that change will never come and that all will go on continuously as it is, is the nature of all delusion.
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Change Goes Nature
From the Zen view all beings are in the grip of the three poisons, greed, anger and delusion (ignorance).
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Anger Ignorance Views
Don’t become bitter and spend all your time focusing on that which the person is not able to provide.
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Focusing Person Provide Time
Change is the very basis of our life, not to be fought, to be welcomed and tasted, to be seen for the gift it truly is.
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Bases Change Lives Our
A time of uncertainty, of not knowing exactly where we’re headed, or what kind of choice to make is a Zen moment.
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Choices Knowing Time
Who you are is always enough. If your partner wants something different, it does not reflect upon you, but upon their needs and fantasies.
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Different People Something Want
Fear of the future and longing for the past are major factors which impede appropriate action.
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Action Future Past
The more we give attention to that which is upsetting, the more strength it has to rule our lives.
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Lived More Rule Strength
What we pay attention to expands. What we pay attention to we become.
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Attention Become Expand Pay
If one’s sense of self is obtained through the eyes of another it is always subject to being lost.
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Eye Lost Self Sense
When we sit, we open our own treasure house. Rather than do this, however, most of us first seek to find the treasures another person can provide.
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House Relationship Treasure
This is how we know we are in a loving relationship. We are blooming, and the one we love is blooming as well.
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Blooming Love Loving Relationship
It is a mistake to expect all of our needs to be met by one person or in one relationship. Honor and be grateful for that which you receive.
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Mistake Relationship Time

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