Fear of the future and longing for the past are major factors which impede appropriate action.
BRENDA SHOSHANNAFrom the Zen view all beings are in the grip of the three poisons, greed, anger and delusion (ignorance).
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If one’s sense of self is obtained through the eyes of another it is always subject to being lost.
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It is a mistake to expect all of our needs to be met by one person or in one relationship. Honor and be grateful for that which you receive.
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Who you are is always enough. If your partner wants something different, it does not reflect upon you, but upon their needs and fantasies.
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What we pay attention to expands. What we pay attention to we become.
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our joy and satisfaction comes from doing each action with a whole heart and mind. Results and consequences then take care of themselves. When you are not absorbed by concern for outcomes, how much anxiety can you ever have?
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Now today, moment by moment, realize that each person and event that happens is life for you. Life is not somewhere else. See how fully you can accept the life that presents itself to you now.
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The more we give attention to that which is upsetting, the more strength it has to rule our lives.
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Be honest and simple. As you keep track all week long, you’ll be amazed at what claims your attention, what you give your precious life force to.
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This is how we know we are in a loving relationship. We are blooming, and the one we love is blooming as well.
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When we are in a truly loving relationship, we receive the gift of being known and accepted. We become more, not less, of who we are.
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We calculate their value to us. When we approach relationships in this manner, we are coming as beggars, seeing the other as a source of supply.
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Don’t become bitter and spend all your time focusing on that which the person is not able to provide.
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Zen practice asks you not to worry about who you ‘should’ become. Find out who you are right now.
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From the Zen view all beings are in the grip of the three poisons, greed, anger and delusion (ignorance).
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Consider for a moment what you pay attention to all day long. What seems important to you, what do you take for granted and hardly attend to at all? Write it down. Do not judge your answers.
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