“My parents were really encouraging. But I had to teach them the proper way you respond to an actor after seeing a play – regardless of whether you like their performance you tell them how great they are because they have to go on again the next night.”

One of the great tools we use in acting is the idea of immediacy, that the audience gets to see you witness something apparently for the first time, so you create a lot of tools to kind of trick yourself into making it appear something is happening for the first time.

When somebody on a professional scale says “you did it wrong,” it has a pretty intense impact. If you don’t have some kind of opposing force to say, “that’s all right, that’s their opinion,” or, “I may have screwed that one up but I’ll do better the next time,” then you’re screwed.

If I had done ‘Titanic,’ it would have made, probably, $200,000 – worldwide. So I think my life would have been very, very similar.

You’re giving the audience in real time something authentic from yourself. As an actor, my bullshit meter was going off like crazy at my first attempts to find my own rock star.

From here on out, I am only interested in what is real. Real people, real feelings, that’s it. That’s all I’m interested in.

I feel the film companies should pay for proper advertising to see that the movie will sell, instead of putting it on our backs.

I don’t want to expose the intricacies of my work so people can understand how I did it.

Interest in certain themes doesn’t mandate a personal stake or personal experience of those themes. I’ve killed people in plays, but no one asks me what it’s like to kill people.

A man tells his stories so many times that he becomes the stories. They live on after him, and in that way he becomes immortal.

That’s what I always enjoyed about acting, the real adrenalin rush. My heart – still before I go on stage – crashing out of my chest. That’s thrilling to me.

I always end up taking people that are morally ambiguous.

Certainly my parents were Dr. [Benjamin] Spock-driven parents. So they were tolerant.

My parents were divorced when I was young. I was really brought up by my mother’s side of the family.

Some parents believe that competition helps prepare children to succeed. Others fear that their children will not be able to handle failure.

The moments that you share with a person do not stop when that person is not in your life anymore.

Im so ahead of my time my parents havent met yet

Whatever talent I had, I’m sure it helped that my parents were in the business and that I grew up around actors, comedians and directors.

My parents taught me: Do not rely on a man. Not rely on it that you get married and it pays for you. That’s what I figured. I have always paid my own bills.

…I had to point at Hanna. But the finger I pointed at her turned back to me. I had loved her. I tried to tell myself that I had known nothing of what she had done when I chose her.