I won a really big fellowship to go straight on to get my Ph.D. And I went through agonies of indecision, and then I decided not to accept it. I just decided I didn’t want to be an academic.
BETTY FRIEDANIt is frightening when a woman finally realizes that there is no answer to the question ‘who am I’ except the voice inside herself.
More Betty Friedan Quotes
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No woman gets an orgasm from shining the kitchen floor.
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The feminine mystique has succeeded in burying millions of American women alive.
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It is easier to live through someone else than to become complete yourself.
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If divorce has increased by one thousand percent, don’t blame the women’s movement. Blame the obsolete sex roles on which our marriages were based.
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While I had been, I guess, quite brilliant, academically, in my college years, I also had been editor of the paper, and I loved that. And, that was a much more active thing. And I missed it when I was doing graduate work.
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You have to say no to the old ways before you can begin to find the new yes you need.
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I understood somehow my mother’s frustration. And that it was no good not only for her, but for her children or her husband, that she didn’t have a real use of her ability.
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Today the problem that has no name is how to juggle work, love, home and children.
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I have discovered that there is a crucial difference between society’s image of old people and ‘us’ as we know and feel ourselves to be.
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Getting older is an adventure, not a problem.
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I wouldn’t be satisfied with a life lived solely on the barricades. I reserve my right to be frivolous.
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We need a new political movement of women and men toward a new society.
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Men are not the enemy, but the fellow victims. The real enemy is women’s denigration of themselves.
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Instead of fulfilling the promise of infinite orgasmic bliss, sex in the America of the feminine mystique is becoming a strangely joyless national compulsion, if not a contemptuous mockery.
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The only way for a woman, as for a man, to find herself, to know herself as a person, is by creative work of her own.
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