Bettina Arndt on aspect
Bettina Arndt7 quotes“Being busy and being seen to be busy lets you off the hook. Buys you a way out of all aspects of your many roles you secretly despiselike cleaning cupboardsor entertaining your husband’s business friends.”
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When you combine wife, mother, career and all, each role become the perfect excuse for avoiding the worst aspects of the other.
Bettina ArndtBettina Arndt Traditionally, marriage involved a kind of bartering, rather than mutual inter-dependence or role sharing.
Bettina ArndtBettina Arndt Women hope men will change after marriage but they don’t; men hope women won’t change but they do.
Bettina ArndtBettina Arndt The truth is despite the hard work and juggling required to keep the different facets of the frantic life afloat, the “superwoman”has one marvelous compensation.
Bettina ArndtBettina Arndt The good husbands understand and offer to help. “All you have to do is ask” they say. But even helpful husbands have to be thanked, their contributions acknowledged, credit given.
Bettina ArndtBettina Arndt Husbands financially and economically supported wives, while wives emotionally, psychologically and socially supported husbands. He brought home the bacon, she cooked it. He fixed the plumbing, she the psyche.
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In every aspect of life, have a game plan, and then do your best to achieve it.
Alan KulwickiAlan Kulwicki Religion is rather the attempt to express the complete reality of goodness through every aspect of our being.
F. H. BradleyF. H. Bradley To draw a tree, to pay such close attention to every aspect of a tree, is an act of reverence not only toward the tree, and toward the earth itself, but also our human connection to it.
Alan LeeAlan Lee Given our inevitably incomplete knowledge about key structural aspects of our ever-changing economy and the sometimes asymmetric costs or benefits of particular outcomes, a central bank.
Alan GreenspanAlan Greenspan All ideas need to be heard, because each idea contains one aspect of the truth. By examining that aspect, we add to our own idea of the truth. Even ideas that have no truth in them whatsoever are useful because by disproving them, we add support to our own ideas.
John Stuart MillJohn Stuart Mill I’m much more interested in what an actor has to say about something substantial and important than who they’re dating or what clothes they’re wearing or some other asinine, insignificant aspect of their life.
Ben AffleckBen Affleck I feel like casting is the most important aspect of making movies.
Ben AffleckBen Affleck I feel things more deeply anything to do with kids. It just makes a big difference in my life Having a child is like taking the deepest core vulnerable aspect of myself, reaching in and taking it outside of my body.
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