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Bettina Arndt7 quotes“Being busy and being seen to be busy lets you off the hook. Buys you a way out of all aspects of your many roles you secretly despiselike cleaning cupboardsor entertaining your husband’s business friends.”
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When you combine wife, mother, career and all, each role become the perfect excuse for avoiding the worst aspects of the other.
Bettina ArndtBettina Arndt Traditionally, marriage involved a kind of bartering, rather than mutual inter-dependence or role sharing.
Bettina ArndtBettina Arndt Women hope men will change after marriage but they don’t; men hope women won’t change but they do.
Bettina ArndtBettina Arndt The truth is despite the hard work and juggling required to keep the different facets of the frantic life afloat, the “superwoman”has one marvelous compensation.
Bettina ArndtBettina Arndt The good husbands understand and offer to help. “All you have to do is ask” they say. But even helpful husbands have to be thanked, their contributions acknowledged, credit given.
Bettina ArndtBettina Arndt Husbands financially and economically supported wives, while wives emotionally, psychologically and socially supported husbands. He brought home the bacon, she cooked it. He fixed the plumbing, she the psyche.
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The great teachers fill you up with hope and shower you with a thousand reasons to embrace all aspects of life. I wanted to follow Mr. Monte around for the rest of my life, learning everything he wished to share of impart, but I didn’t know how to ask.
Pat ConroyPat Conroy The historic ascent of humanity, taken as a whole, may be summarized as a succession of victories of consciousness over blind forces – in nature, in society, in man himself.
Leon TrotskyLeon Trotsky My strong belief is that God created human beings and therefore he knows about every aspect of the human body. So if I want to fix it, I just need to stay in harmony with Him.
Ben CarsonBen Carson I’d probably want to teach at university, because children would drive me insane. I suspect it would be English literature, Shakespeare and so forth. I’ve always been deeply, deeply in love with that kind of thing.
Stephen FryStephen Fry The principle that human nature, in its psychological aspects, is nothing more than a product of history and given social relations removes all barriers to coercion and manipulation by the powerful.
Noam ChomskyNoam Chomsky If you get those two aspects right, most rugby matches will work in your favour.
Alan LewisAlan Lewis Human-caused climate change threatens almost every aspect of human existence.
Alan LowenthalAlan Lowenthal In every aspect of life, have a game plan, and then do your best to achieve it.
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