Because I didn’t have any queer, lesbian, female role models I hated my own femininity and had to look deep within myself to create an identity that worked for me. Pop culture just doesn’t hand us enough variety to choose from.
BETH DITTOThis archaic idea – that a woman who is unmarried and childless at 30 is somehow unnatural – will probably always exist, and, like most social standards, it is ridiculous.
More Beth Ditto Quotes
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I love Adele so much and it’s honestly not because we’re both big.
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I have a lot of feminist idols. My favorite thing about growing up in Arkansas – well, not favorite but something I’ve always felt grateful for – was that I really had to dig for what I could. There was no Internet. There wasn’t tons of feminist literature floating around.
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I’ve had a ton of fast-food jobs – it changes your approach to human interaction forever.
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Life is not about creating an unreal existence. People should be challenged to find something cool about the mundane.
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I can take care of a house, and some people I meet, I think, ‘You don’t even know how to make a bed.
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I love to make people feel like they are taking a part in their own body and evolution.
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Even if you’re only wearing trainers and a vest, eyeliner will instantly transform you. People always look put-together when their make-up’s on and their eyes are popping – just ask Amy Winehouse!
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I am tired of spending a little bit of money in a lot of pieces because they keep on falling apart.
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A weird thing about Gossip that I’ve always said: “If I weren’t in this band, I would never listen to it.” But I would go see it. It’s a band you would go see that you don’t necessarily listen to.
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I thought to be feminine was to give in to straight culture, or the beauty standard, but in my heart I had a flair for fashion and style. They were passions I kept secret because I didn’t understand I could love clothes and hair and makeup and still like girls.
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I’m passionate about color. My best friend and I sit and look at Pantone books for fun.
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Why wear pants when you can wear a muumuu?
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I just like food too much, and I don’t want to change. I spent so much of childhood trying to change, and I just got sick of it … I don’t want to look like Britney Spears, I just don’t want to. She’s hideous.
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I love Vivienne Westwood. Her work is so interesting, you can always find something that’s great and fits you.
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This is how I feel about everything that’s out of your control: once you make a record, it’s not yours anymore. There’s nothing you can do. It’s the way I feel about political movements – both of those things grow on their own.
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